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Is 13 too young to have a boyfriend?

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No but be careful who you choose because there are some boys that tell you that they love you but they just want to take advantage of your body. Im not saying all of them are like that (im not if your wondering) but please be very careful about your choice.

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No. I know eleven year olds that have boyfriends.

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I know 3rd graders
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Not realy

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no I had one at 12

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No

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just dont hav sex till ur ready. dont boys convince you to. do it when u want

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trust me im 12 and one of my ex's tried to convince me tht i was a good age to do it now but trust me u dont want to rush things
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No. Im 13 and i have a boyfriend.!

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Nope

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It depends on how Mature you and the boy are.

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No. Not at all!

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nope

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No just be careful who you choose though, but no.

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nope :)

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Random but... you're cute!!
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Wouldn't it be kinda random if someone all of a suddenly told you you were cute?
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lol wow but yeah you are cute ;D
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Only for love is ok, Other than that No.
16 is better that 13

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a agree that 16 is better than 13. Many recent studies show that if you wait to even date until your sixteen you are better off.
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I think its different for every person. There shouldn't have to be an age limit.
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no way

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no i was 13 when i had my first bf just becareful don't let him talk u into doing anything to do with sex

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Hell No

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yes - what are you going to do fight over a juice box with him? focus on school you have your whole life for boys

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I belive this is right! Before your 16 who do you think is going to drive you and your date? His parents? Your parents? School is way important and has a more positive impact on you then dating a boy. I have seen people fail at school because they were so obsessed over what thier boyfriend thought. It totaly consumed them. In my personal opinion its best to wait until you graduate before leting things get serious.
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It depends on what you define as a boyfriend. If you are only 13, it can't really be a serious relationship. Those are for when you are older and looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with. If it is milder, go ahead as long as your boyfriend isn't too much older. I wouldn't go for anyone over 15 at that age. Plus, you have the rest of your life ahead of you. Enjoy being young and single while you can.

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Not at all

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Depends If They're Mature Enough to handle a Girlfriend. Maybe Wait Until High school. :)

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no but some boys just use you so be careful

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It's up to you if it's ok or not, I honestly don't think you should date until you know that you guys are going to last. But, if you think that you guys are going to last for awhile then I say go for it.

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Yes, get one when you 15 or 16.

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Yes, no younger than 16

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Ha....no. I just think 13 year olds are too immature to be involved in a relationship like that. Myself included.
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No, I have a bf, but be careful who you choose

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No

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Nope. But I think its important to remember that you are still really young, and that the relationship most likely won't last. So don't take it too seriously.

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No, I had one at eleven. I mean all it is is having a crush, and them liking you back.

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It really isn't .
I'm thirteen & I have a boyfriend & it is more than "just a crush" thank you .
I'm not going to get into everything that we have talked about & done but it's definitely not "just a crush"
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Only yes if you can handle it

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I don't think it is too young if you are actually in love with the guy and not just dating him to be "cool"

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nope

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No, my friend is 12 and she has a bf, shes in 7th and they have been together since 6th.

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No!!

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I think you should just focus on having fun. You're too young to focus on boys in terms of dating. I would say hang out with all the guys you like as friends get to know them without having that dating mentality. You may not even like him after you really get to know him. Also keep in mind that people are constantly changing through their teen years. I can personally tell you that ( I'm 17 yrs. old)

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no

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No! Not at all! :) You can have a boyfriend at any age but the thing is you only get a boyfriend when your ready for one!

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No, i wouldnt think so. But make sure you can trust this person. You dont want to date someone at a very young age, then brake up, then never talk to each other again. You need to know that the person wont date you for fun, and that after you DO start going out, that they will actually talk to you, not ignore you. SO chose wisely who you want to date.

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no

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Of course that's not to young to have a boyfriend !! Have fun or do something !!!

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No but if yur not ready for the fights an stuff then no but no its not to young im 13 an i have a boyfriend

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no

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No . I have a boyfriend right now & he is turning 15 in January & I am turning 14 in March . It is not too young to have a boyfriend .
We have been together for a little over 2 months & we don't plan on breaking up anytime soon . (:

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maybe

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Yes its not a real relationship

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defiantly no

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not at all!!! :-D

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Yes, you're not mature enough to handle a relationship, im 14 and saying this.

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YES because........... everybody else is say no. :)

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NO. Its not. when i was in fifth grade i had a boyfriend and so did everyone else.

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if i had a daughter i'd say no. but there is no reason why not to have guy friends.

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no.

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it depends what you need

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no unless your parents say so then yes but unless they didn't then no.

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If you love this guy then go for it and if he treats you right

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yes because one day you will fine the right guy

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Maybe you can date a little bit, but remember: dating is to get to know someone and have fun with them! 13 is a little to young to actually start being seious with a guy. You want someone who cares about what you want and at 13, most guys aren't that mature. Also, to go on an actual date somewhere, your parents would have to drive you somewhere which is REALLY akward. So maybe wait until you have a driver's liscense to go on a date or have a BF. And I'm not some middle aged person. I'm 14.

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No but my parents wont allow me to date im 13 too.

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13, in my opinion, is to young to be in a serious relationship and have a serious boyfriend, but I don't think its to young to have the title of boyfriend girlfriend!

Hope I helped:)

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Baby girl I think it's best if you wait until your ready to date someone who loves you for who you are. Besides I rather not want you to rush into relationships that fast like a girl and I did when I was 11, and now here I am several of the girls I dated dumped me in a heartbeat. Because they thought they had a better guy who cared more about them then I did. But was too blind to see it then.

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no, im 13 but i haf 2 b sneaky around my parents cuz they dont think im ooolllddd enough. But how old do or parents want us to b? Old enough until its to late and ur 33 wit now bf or husband or kids if wanted?!!!

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No I'm 11 in the 6th and I got a GF named Jiah.

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no i started dating when i was six

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nope

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No, but you must be mature, don't have "too much fun" ;D (seriously, it'll mess you up)

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nope :) i have one, and i love him with all my heart

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all of my friends started dating in 1st grade...

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