Love is a choice. A lot of people think of love as a feeling and I mean it is to a certain extent. Now I'm not talking boyfriend girlfriend love. Nor family love. Nor friendship love. Nor a love for something. I'm talking all love. It is a choice. You can love someone cuz you feel it inside of you, they're special to you. They take care of you. They make you feel safe. They do everything for you. They give you butterflies. That starts the spark of the love..but you really love when you choose to love them. you choose to care for them, to make them feel safe, to not say mean things to them, to put them before yourself, too work things out when they go bad, too not fight. You choose it. Feelings can fade and your not always gonna feel up too par but when you choose it..that is love. Choosing to love someone no matter what. Your heart can deceive you. it's your mind that keeps you on Track. it's your inner soul that makes the hard decisions. sometimes I don't wanna be nice...sometimes I don't wanna work it out..but it's not a sense of want. it's not about ME anymore. it's about the other person. And despite what I FEEL. I will love that person. that is love.