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I wanna kiss my boyfriend and he wants to kiss me but we dont know when to do it because we dont want to take it too far help ?

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You first have to mutually know that you aren't going to go further than you are comfortable which is going to mean openly discussing your intentions with each other. It will take conviction to stick to your personal boundaries, but if you both respect each other you should be good.
As for when, maybe before you say goodbye after a date, but make sure it's at the door or somewhere where going further would take more maneuvering giving you time to think about what you're doing. If one or both of you don't think you can show restraint, maybe stick to public outings where going further is not an option.

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Well if you don't want it to go too far I recommend you do it in public. And somewhere cold. Maybe outside if it's cold where you live.

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cold?
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If its cold they wouldn't want to take off their clothes.
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just do it...but if you all dont trust yourselves then talk to eachother and lay down some ground rules so that each of you can get a clear understanding

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It's just a kiss. If you like him do it. You're not having sex. Plus you need to kiss, if he's not the one, at least when you find the one you will know how to kiss very well :). But this rule doesn't go for anything other then kissing lol

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It really sounds as if neither of you are really ready. But when the time comes, just stay fully clothed, and it won't go "too far".

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wow your not ready.

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ur so not ready

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If you're worried about kissing getting out of control, you're not mature enough to be going out & dating, let alone have a BF.

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