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Why do people act so indignant about an issue, and then when you genuinely ask them for help they ignore you?

Seriously. Don't take a stand on an issue, and judge me for where I'm coming from when I really want help. Is it because you can't help me? If that's the case, maybe you should check your self-righteous indignation at the door. Cause I want no part of it.

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Don't know what issue it is you need help with, but a lot of people "talk a good game" and that's all they do. They have no intention of taking action.

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True that deep
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Because people are selfish these days D:

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Too vague. Can you give a specific example?

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Asked for parenting advice. Got in legal trouble for spanking my kid. Asked for other ways of discipline that other parents found helpful. Some people REALLY did try to help...but there were 2 different women that were indignant on their point, but didn't offer any real help. I elaborated further, to help them understand the whole issue and at least 1 of them has blatantly ignored me...cause I know she's been on here. I'm just upset in general...... It has nothing to do with her. Although, it IS Bogus and it DID irritate me.
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Some people are just jerks i think.
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The thing is, I don't think she was trying to be. But I also think she has a lack of b-alls (for lack of a better word) I guess I just wish she would've acknowledged that she doesn't know as much as she thinks she does. Like I said, I'm just upset. It really has nothing to do with her. I just need to vent. I've cried alot and prayed alot...and still feel like I need to vent...so here I am focusing on something that is minor cause it's easier than looking at what's major right now.
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because the love of many will grow cold.

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