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Will someone PLEASE help me?!

I had this bf. My friends (not really) kept telling me things about him. Then he didn't seem as interested any more. So I started believing these things. I didn't know they were lies at them time 'til the day after I broke up with him. Then I talked to him and we made up (or so I thought) and we hugged and kiss and stuff. Then one of are friends asked "Didn't you break up?" He said it was a "friendly" hug and kiss. At first I thought it was just a little joke or something. Then when kept saying it over and over to all are friends I got confused. So now I ask. does he like me as a friend or as a gf?

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friends with benefits

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I don't know. was he cheating on you.

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Don't post personal info online. Ill be honest though.......featuring the fact that he kisses u and call it a joke......it's irrelevant towards an answer to this....he thinks you a joke.

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your best bet is to ask him directly preferably in person. only he knows the answer to that question.

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Well probably a friend because you broke up with him. You should ask him in private if he still likes you. If you still like him, then start telling people so the rumor will get around to him, and maybe he will ask you out. Talk to your friends and get support!

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If that's the way he wants it, move on. You deserve better

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If you want an opinion from an "old hand" at this stuff:
This is the root of the problem that got you INTO this mess! _Why_ aren't you asking him _directly_ about where your relationship stands now? Stop asking everybody else what they think, when it's him you should be asking!
---You should always be talking first to your (ex?) bf about stuff that bothers you. That's what being bf/gf is: you talk to them first always about important stuff.
---If you always talk to friends first, you will always only be getting second-hand info (or rumors, or even lies from those who are jealous). And any "advice" will also be based on guesswork, since they aren't the ones in the relationship. Their advice _might_ be good, or it _might_ be totally wrong. If you break up with somebody because you "heard" something, and never talked to your bf about it first -- then he's probably pretty leery about taking back somebody who trusts other people over him.
---If you goof up (like you did), talk to your bf about it honestly (which you did).
The problem is, it may take him a while to decide if he thinks you trust him enough (or if you talk to/believe your friends _instead_ of him).
Talk to HIM some more, instead of talking about him with all your friends.
You may have screwed up his trust permanently, but maybe not. Ask him if he'd be willing to "start over" with you. However, you need to change your own behavior a bit if you want to earn it back.

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