-Pray. If you do not believe in God, then talk to somebody. Keep yourself busy all the time. I often think about this question but I keep myself busy so I do not drive myself crazy with thought. Sometimes life seems overrated :(
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pick a young person, a child, thats family or a neighbor that you know. think of how losing you would effect them. spend time with them and stop thinking of yourself. live for them. also, avoid sad songs. but music works. when i had a dangerous tumor, i spent spare time with headphones on cranking Aerosmith. Not the ballads, the hard rock they play. totally changed my mood, more each day, for the better. good luck and get help, if u dont or cant get a counseler, tell someone you trust. if you dont trust telling, and church doesnt help, go to a grave sight of someone you knew. talk to that person, you will feel better imagining theyr answer and it will be confidential. dont take your own life. you will hurt someone elses forever.
keep livin. thats all you can do, there is a world of possibilities out there and suicide is never the answer (unless of course the zombie invasion comes and your trapped in a closet with only one bullet then ok). just breath and look forward to tommorow
All good answers. It is hard. I know right now. Usually there are days when I just lock myself in da house. But then I have to give myself a talking too and just get going. It is hard, especially if missing someone. You just have to tell yourself to make this day better and get out and kick it in the teeth.
the best way I manage is practicing martial arts, I either go punch my training boards or train with my practice katana, so that I can keep improving, it really helps with my self control, and it helps me to always remain calm, collected, and cool.
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I absolutely love this quote: "Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but had never been able to reach. Check the road and the nature of your battle. The world you desire can be won. It exists, it is real. It is possible. It is yours".-Ann Rand . I feel like this quote just says it all. Personally, and in all honestly, I get discouraged a little too easily, but I try to keep my perspective clear and remember why I held on so long in the first place- and keep pushing. Trying times are not times to stop trying. I pray, and do whatever it takes to keep me going. I try to focus on the things that make me happy during those times, let go of the thoughts that weaken me.
I don't know you but it hurts me that you don't think you are important enough to want to live. You are still alive for a reason. It sounds like you are bored with your life so that means you need to try something different. To say you don't want to live anymore makes it sound like you have done everything you've ever wanted to do and I doubt that you have. I guarentee you are an amazing human being. Also, try helping other people who are worse off than you I think that would make you fill fufilled. Please keep us updated. Im really worried about you.
my job affords me the reality of seeing plenty of people who suffer mostly terminal illnesses. All the money in the world couldnt help these poor people. it would shame me to tell someone in that state that I'm sick of living. it's all a matter of perspective. love life.
change your image, perspective and find something that makes your life worth living! i've been where you are and all you have to do is change the way you see the world and realize there are people who love you. smile when you can't and eventually happiness becomes a habit instead of something impossible.
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1. Start a hobby/collective sport, learn to do stuff that few people around you can do. 2. Go out every day, if you are not tired and just enjoy some free time roaming around. 3. Help other people. This will be sometimes hard but worth the fun, new things you learn and new people you meet. 4. Do something beautiful and unexpected everyday, other people may start repeating it after you :)
get councelling and find a purpose or speciallity in life to live, if there is none think...god brought you in this world for something, if you havennt died from natural causes, then he isnt ready for you to come back yet
Sell everything you own until you can carry all of your worldly possessions with you in a backpack. Pick 2 or 3 things you've always wanted to do like skydive or see the statue of liberty or something. Go do them. Then get a job waiting tables in some random place for about a month. Use that time to figure out what you want to do with the rest of your life. During this time meet as many strangers as you can and push your comfort level as often as possible. Do things that have always scared you.
I WILL donate everything but some clothes and my wallet to Goodwill and The Salvation Army, then walk around the world, helping people with their problems, then move on to the next town. When I get to Australia, I'll settle down somewhere. Preferably Perth or Sydney.
i don't know.. i was sent to the hospital before i could try.. although getting a hobby like drawing, or sewing helped a bit. you know.. something to keep your mind off of it. or just sleep. sleep helps alot.
Do not kill yourself .I know what does it mean to be tired of everything , when apathy is my best friend and I'm a pessimist , I know how it feels not to have any friends , and blame and hate someone for everything that happened to me. I know what does it mean to be stuck , and to be too weak to change anything. but I still have a hope that one day something will happen and everything will change. I wish you to get stronger! life sucks, everyone wish you to fail but you will lose only when you will give up on yourself. Do not.
listen to my heart and think, start wondering how many people would miss me, try to work out a solution and keep myself busy, maybe spend time with family. I know I'll be missed, knowing someone will mourn over me, keeps me alive and running.