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demoulin: 5 months ago

I just lost the love of my life, and I have no clue on what to do. Any help?

She broke up with me last night, when our 11 months was this monday, and we were living together so my whole life was about her and I still want it to be.

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deniser1254: 5 months ago

This may not help you feel better today, but my experience is that 'time does heal all wounds'. Every human on the face of the earth who has ever loved another person has experienced this kind of pain. For reason beyond our knowledge, this person was not THE one for you even tho you love her still. Talk to friends about your feelings, but try not to sit around in misery. Go out somewhere, take a walk, go to the gym, read a book, take a vacation....just get back into life and you will find yourself again.

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demoulin: 5 months ago

Hmmmm thanks a lot, I know all of this lol but for some reason when it comes from someone else it just seems more helpful.

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reginald1969: 5 months ago

Wow sorry

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demoulin: 5 months ago

Thanks.

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mustang78: 5 months ago via iPhone

Why did she break up with you?

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demoulin: 5 months ago

She said that she wasn't happy anymore and that it can never be fixed, that our relationship has ran it's course. But I wasn't done trying I wasn't going to give up because I know and believe that it can be better if we both believed and worked on it, but I was the only one doing anything. So of course if she didn't try or want a change then it wouldn't have happend, but she doesn't understand that.

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mustang78: 5 months ago via iPhone

I'm sorry. All you can do is pray about it. God already has someone for you. It may be her or someone else. Don't give up

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demoulin: 5 months ago

Thanks, that's exactly what I have been doing since she moved out a month ago. I have been praying everynight, but just to make sure that she is safe, and that she is happy even if it kills me and make's me missirable every day, and I guess that's what's going on but I'm still not giving up.

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ShaSha1992: 5 months ago

How old are you guys? Grow up...
Listen relationships are going to suck sometimes and you'll get hurt. That's part of it. If you were together for even 6 months there is a reason. Communication is key... Tell the full and honest truth about how you are feeling towards each other. What's causing the fights. Cry it out if you have to. Then figure out how to avoid the stuff that has caused past problems. It isn't always easy.. But it is very worth it! Best of luck! (:

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jamesbbrown: 5 months ago

Wow i'm so sorry!

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demoulin: 5 months ago

Thanks.

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jamesbbrown: 5 months ago

your welcome!

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craigsmom: 5 months ago

I'm in the same boat as you, only mine's online, but the love is just as real. I'm afraid there's nothing we can do, not that I can really speak for you. I've tried what I can. Sometimes we have to face what we'd rather not. I'm sorry about your situation. : (

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demoulin: 5 months ago

Thanks, and I'm sorry for your's as well. Good luck.

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craigsmom: 5 months ago

Thanks, and you're welcome. :)

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joeboy: 5 months ago

so so so sorry i really hope you guys can get back together <:(

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demoulin: 5 months ago

Thank you, i really hope so also, but if this is what makes her happy then I would rather be misserable then for her to be in the relationship. I just can't deal with it, I can't get her off of my mind.

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JessAurora: 5 months ago

I went through the same thing. it sux... i know. I moved back home to N.C with my family. It's been a lil over a year now. I've only had two real relationships since. I'm still a mess, and i've been a lil messed up the past year. All that can help is time.... and maybe the numb of burning hard liquor....

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Syntha: 5 months ago via Android

That comment you put in my box on the last question...you are messed up

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JessAurora: 5 months ago

naaahhh, Really? and packing you bags and leaving isn't?

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JessAurora: 5 months ago

Eather way i'm sorry if your feelings got hurt.

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demoulin: 5 months ago

Well I'm sorry for you as well. And yeah I know that it takes time but I still don't want to give up, but there's nothing I can do about it if she doesn't feel the same way. Yeah the numb of burning liqour will be good for that time but I also don't want to do anything that I will regret, or mess up the chances of being with her. I don't want to be that type of guy that doesn't want her to do something but then I go and do it myself. It's not who I am. I know that's not what your saying, I'm just elaborating.

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Syntha: 5 months ago via Android

The question was>> what would you do if someone is cheating on you? and you think packing a bag and leaving is a bad answer, and being scared of commitment....u are messed up...

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JessAurora: 5 months ago

it is a bad answer. If you realy love them and want to make it work you'll try everything, and everything.

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JessAurora: 5 months ago

*anything and everything
also; drink in a dark sucluded place where you cant posibly do anything that could hurt you'r chances of being with out her. a lil bit of drunkness is good for the soul somtimes. shhhh, dont let bob marly hear i said that....

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demoulin: 5 months ago

lol okay.

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Syntha: 5 months ago via Android

haha.... ok

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melanie420: 5 months ago

hey im so sorry for you and everything that is going on. i know you dont know me but im here for you and you can talk to me about anything.

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demoulin: 5 months ago

That sounds great thanks, lol but I hardly get online, but when I do then that will work.

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VikiH52: 5 months ago via iPhone

How awful! First go ahead and have a big pity party for yourself; cry and rant and rave! Get it all out. Take a week if you need to. Then pick up the pieces and move on.

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pinkeye10: 5 months ago via iPhone

I went through the same exact thing just give her space try to keep busy with school or work an hang out with your friends and go out. If its meant to be you will be together in the future. She will eventually come back they always do just give it time 2-4 months

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demoulin: 5 months ago

Thanks. :)

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flashbam: 5 months ago

i have all kinds of questions and no real answers, like: is it another guy, is she pregnant, are her friends telling her she should be looking for Mr. Right? Also, like Joker said, "Why so serious?", your whole life is about her???? hmmm... pray about it. :)

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