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My boyfriend said he needed time for my mistakes, I cut. And what's funny is that he replacing me! I'm his bestfriend! I'm his girl friend! what the heck! I don't want to loose him. any advice of how I can win him back? and don't say to talk to him because I call him or text him and all he says is "I'm busy!" D:

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If he wont answer you back or doesnt want to talk with you, then you cant do much. I would be patient and wait, if he leaves you or just ignores you, that is how things are and you wouldnt want that type of person with you anyways.
As for cutting, that can bring infections, excess blood loss, and scars which people notice and that obligates you to using cloth with long sleeves and other stuff even in hot temperatures. It is something that you cant last during forever and will just make it worse.
If i was you right now, i would smile every time im depressed, i would just laugh out loud when alone, and just write down in a piece of paper what you want to do, what you need to improve, what you want, and youre young by seeing your picture (if that is you), get some good music on right now, and just go walking or sit in the porch or in the yard and REALLY think about the things you want. Because if you work hard for those things, you get them.
So, get out of depression NOW and do something about it, or never and just ruin your life for such a small problem which man of us have had.
So smile! and get those priorities made, go make some goals, and achieve them!
Hope i helped.

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Btw, what is the hairstyle in the picture called? I always liked that, idk what to call it.
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This is excellent advice. I hope you will do as he suggests .Good luck.
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Well my bang is called a fringe, my rest of my hair I just straightned it and use a blow dyer to make it looked flowed xD I appreciate you like my hair
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I really do, where i live i never see anyone with it, and its a pity lol
Hope you take my advice or that it helped anyways :)
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Oh and thank you :) I'm crying because none really likes me im also crying because your answer touches my heart. thank you.
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People do like you, youre just not around those who do.
They will come, slowly, but eventually. Meanwhile do the things you enjoy and be patient.
Trust me, that is happening to me for a big part of my life.
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Listen to these songs:
Matchbox Twenty - How far weve come.
Was listening to it just now, dont know, hope it makes your mood better.
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Phlorence_602

Just ask yourself this question "Is he worth fighting for? if he cannot even stick with you, when you have theses weakness?"
That´s all I can tell ya.

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Thanks, very thank you ?
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Phlorence_602
Is that from your heart?
You forgot a smiley :)))
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:D I forget a really big smiley
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Phlorence_602
haha..smile young lady :)
It shall be well..
Focus on you, more than him :)))
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Thats so true pholorence your so funny and smart = )
Both of you get a star and a happy face = )
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Phlorence_602
Thanks :)
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well u can talk to him face to face and say wat ur felling

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He, he doesn't pay attention to me D:
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then like forget about him
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don't worry about him, please take care of yourself first. Why do you cut ? I didn't cut, but would do bad stuff for attention.

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People call me fag emowannabe goth and things like that
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So you cut yourself because people call you names really who gives a F just ignore them walk away laugh at them and say this is my own style if you like me cool if not go F yourselves
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oh, the emo wannabe goth shit ! my daughter went through the same thing. when Marilyn Manson was hot a few years ago she started dressing Gothic and I was like WHAT ? I sat down with her and she explained that she is not psycho or anything, just likes the style. AND guess what, The Beautiful People is my favorite "jam as loud as I can" song " in my car. some of the girls messing with my daughter were from people I went to school with. so I confronted them face to face and said tell your prissy cheerleader stuckup bitch daughter to quit f'n with mine.
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"There are no problems only situations".So one can posit that "There are no answers only solutions".Also," There is no situation the solution is not also within.It's not what happens to you it's how you take it.

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Mirror_sea

Concentrate on your issues and get better. He's not a good friend. You will be glad in the future if you are strong today and let him go.

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First of all stop cutting, that's not the answer. I know it helps ease the pain specially at this moment. Him leaving for your "mistake", that's just plain stupid, cause instead of being there when you need him he's not. Sounds to me like he was trying to break but that's what it sounds to me. I think that it's his mistake for leaving your side. Don't text or call him, "set him free if he comes back is your to keep, but if he come back be careful cause he cause you pain". If you need further advise I can hear you out and try to help.

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You cut? Does this not seem clear to you? Your (admit it) now ex-Bf doesn't want to deal with your self destructive tendencies. Who can blame him when there are so many other girls. Get yourself right, sugar, the cutting is a deal breaker.

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Im confused when you say you cut do you mean you cut yourself when you don't get your way ....?

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