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Liking someone with multiple personality disorder

ok, I like a kid (lets call him John) I really like him, but he has multiple personality disorder, I'm not hating on it, by all means, I love his 1 other personality Jack......that's the problem, I like John and Jack. I never told John the way Jack is around me, he holds onto my waist, and puts my head into his shoulder, etc. I feel like I'm cheating on John.....with himself. but I'm not positive that John actually likes me, but I know Jack does. would it be a problem to date one of his personalities??? (sorry I have a lot of questions)

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try it a connection that strong may lead to something alot more, learn how to act around each of his personalities and you should be fine

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1 of his personalities? Just date the boy!!!

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date them both or not at all, he's only really one person its a disorder and if he's really John and not Jack you need to love him as both John and Jack. If he is John then its John who created Jack, why don't you try talking to John about it?

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oh man that's tough. i would talk to john about how you feel, but not bring up jack or the way he acts around you

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Very interesting and you can always pursue a degree in psychology at the same time! Just don't choose sides or he'll have an argument with himself! :)

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umm, my mind is fvcked. umm, wow yet i think i can come up with weird questions. nvm. anyway, umm, how can you only date one? you either date both, or neither.

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Date them both. They are the same person

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he had to go thru horrible abuse to have this shattered personality, do you really want to risk having a child? look at the long haul, you will grow tired of it, it wont be so fascinating trying to please all the personalities after a while. Please date someone without issues. Think about it, are you trying to mimic something from your past and fix it thru him? it wont work honey, been there, done that. Forgive everyone in your past, it will set you free, then look in the mirror EVERY morning and tell yourself how wonderful and beautiful you are, out loud, after a while, you will brainwash yourself back to where you should be. Your subconscious mind will make your self esteem shine baby girl!!!!!!! good luck!

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slow down, she said she liked him, not wanted to have a child with him
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