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possumer27: 5 months ago

Ex boyfriend help!!

my ex has recently been flirting with me like crazy, and has been hinting that he wants to get back together with me. I already have a boyfriend though (I haven't told him) that I adore. though I'm still a little attracted to my ex, I know I'm much better off with my current boyfriend. how can I tell him nicely that I'm taken, if he asks me to be his girl again?

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claireboobear: 5 months ago

You need to tell it to him straight up. But not harshly. Start by telling him the positives, like that you like being his friend or if you like hanging out with him. Then tell him the bad news. That you have a boyfriend and that it wont work out between you two. Then end with a positive such as that you would like to stay friends. If he doesnt get the message, it might be the time to really push away

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possumer27: 5 months ago

Thx I will :)

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boowielove: 5 months ago

Tell the guy off

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possumer27: 5 months ago

How can I do that without hurting his feelings too badly?

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caprichick24: 5 months ago

I would simply wait until it gets to the point of definite annoyance then tell him that you've moved on and it's time for him to, too. Also mention how you've found somebody that makes you happy and how you're finally getting over him. By then he should get your point and leave you alone.

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