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What do you think? We go to this party. 30-50 year olds. After a few drinks they start jumping on each other, piling 3 to 4 people on one

person till they can't breath. these are new friend of my wife's. then they grab my wife and start jumping on her. I get up pull them off and politely say I respect my wife more than that, I have to say no. I gather up my kid and say we're leaving. and then my wife is mad at me for " going to the extreme" by leaving. I felt like I was protecting her. she's had major surgery this year. what do you all think?

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I think the new friends of your wife is a bunch of immature idiots.

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I agree, I like one couple, the rest of them are weird.
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Ed....that's putting it mildly! Lol
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I try to be nice
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drinking will be a problem for the two you soon

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She never drinks, I had a few beers.
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I think, you were protecting your wife. What the heck kind of party were you at?

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30 birthday party with 8 adults 10 kids.
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TheHarem
Hi CJ...great answer...strange party. Lol
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Honestly, first thing I thougth, was maybe a swingers party.
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*thought
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You were doing the right thing

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I think your taking your wife and child and leaving was the only thing to do. Not only is this bizarre behavior for grown people but it is a bad example to be setting for your child.

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Thank you I agree.
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What the heck! What on earth is wrong with your wife! In front of your child! Wow! She needs professional help sounds like to me. You did the exact right thing, she is in the wrong this time.

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Thanks. Most the kids and my child were in a bedroom playing. I have two bad disks if they tackled me I won't walk again and I was worried about her. 4 150+lb people = 600 lbs
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I don't get the point. Sounds like a precursor to group sex, and I'm not joking about that. Hope she calms down pretty quickly. How dare she put you in that position...I would never do that to my husband, he would start killing people and then he'd be in jail for the rest of his life and I'd be alone. (LOL)
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I was weird. the women are very loud and in charge. The men are quit and low keyed. Me and my wife have a very 50/50 relationship. My wife sees it like a right of passage, or initiation or hazing. All of which to me are organized bullying.
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Koichan....what the heck is right. Nothing like being flattened like a pancake. Lol
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Oh well, different strokes for different folks, but this wife has no right to be mad at her husband for taking her out of that situation. Wonder if it was precursor to a special kind of s*x...Yes, Mistress?
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This is crazy. You did the right thing. You are responsible. Why would people do this? Maybe they're swingers and this is their way of seeing how you react to bizarre behaviour. If this happened to me and my husband didn't pull me out, he'd be in the doghouse for years.

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Now that I've thought about this a little bit, perhaps your wife needs more adventure in her life. What can you do to surprise her with something completely unexpected? Maybe a trip to a warm place for a week. Maybe lessons in something she's always wanted to do. There is a reason why she was seeking the company of people doing weird stuff. That is what needs fixing.
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Good insight, Rath.
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