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jacksonmartin11: 5 months ago via Android

my girlfriend's not eating what do I do?

So lately I have noticed my girlfriend hasn't been eating around me, and she always has an excuse like I'm not hunger or I'm gonna eat will my brothers etc. The other day she left her bag at my house and I was picking it up to bring it to her house and her notebook fell out, and when it fell it landed on a page that said in big bold red letters: FOOD IS THE ENEMY!! so I looked at her notebook, I know what your thinking that was a total invadtion of her privacy but I was really worried about her when I saw the food is the enemy thing. I read a bunch of stuff like how she wasn't really eating with her brothers cause the haven't eaten together since they're dad died (her mom die in a car crash when she was 6 and her dad died in Iraq 1 1/2 years ago) and how empty feeling in her stomach feels normal now and if she eats she must purge etc. I don't know what to do cause if I ask her about it she'll know I read her notebook please help! By the way I'm 15 and she's 14, we're both freshmans in highschool, she plays volleyball and she is a really big perfectionist like she has straight A's, she is the best player on her volleyball team and is the nicest person in our school, you could ask anyone and they would say she is the sweetest and thats way she shouldn't die from not eating I just don't know what to do please help!!

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dukenukem: 5 months ago | Last edited at 3:34PM on 12/10/2012

tie her down and make her eat or your braking up with her :o lol

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BabyLove69: 5 months ago

No, don't threaten to break up with her because that will make things worse. Sit her down and have a heart to heart talk. She needs to know that you are their for her.

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PickleHead123: 5 months ago

Take her to treatment

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mysterydoubles: 5 months ago

Make the most scrumptious delicious tempting dinner ever. Then SHE'LL HAVE TO EAT IT

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daniellerenea12: 5 months ago

Rehab. Counseling, or ask her why she isnt eating

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animilo: 5 months ago via iPhone

she needs help, try talking to her calmly and get her to go to a Doctor or Therapist. good luck and try to be as supportive as possible

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lilith777: 5 months ago

yes you are right about being concerned with such sensitive issue and as far as that goes you should go to your school's psychologist and consult with him/her and share what you know about your gf's issue. if i were you id go the next time you are in school. do this on your own time and the psychologist will let you know what you should and can do to help her and such. by the way im sorry to hear about this especially that you guys are so young and both of you have a long way to go in life and she seems like a really great person who should be enjoying life to the max you know and give her all the time all the emotional support you can because she needs it now and will need it a lot

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cupcake20: 5 months ago

talk to her about it if shes still doesn't eat get special help concealer or therapist good luck ;)

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jess8891: 5 months ago

Ask why she won't eat. Before volleyball sit down and have a snack with her because she needs food in her to do the physical requirements of volleyball. I play volleyball too and I can't jump to spike when I don't eat something.

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