1 year ago
Last edited at 5:10PM on 12/11/2012
Imagine you being really old. Can you imagine THAT limiting you for all your life? Causing you to not come out and express yourself? How long can you stand to just sit around and wait for people to come to you and give you a pity party? Can you live your whole life being afraid all the time of rejection? Take control of your life and MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. People make mistakes all the time. Accept the fact that you are gonna make a mistake at some point in your life. But know that that's NOT the end. The biggest mistakes have been made by the biggest most successful people alive.....and dead.... Make your own history and by the end of it even have fun along the way. By the end of it all. You would have regretted more the things you didn't do than the things you did.
There's really not much you can do besides trying to go out of your comfort zone more often and gaining more confidence think positive thought or set a goal to maybe talk to someone new you'll realize it's not that bad and it will start to come naturally
be confident in yourself & start interacting in more social things like school sports and stuff. public speaking---if ur up for the challenge :} Make new friends and they will probably introduce you to new people. Shyness can hold you back from many things.....life your life and be LOQUACIOUS-----It means very talkative
Face the situations that make you feel "shy". You'll be nervous, but you'll learn to do it and the nervousness will fade away. This is something you have to deal with because it's a difficult world if you can't face up to people. Practice, practice, practice.
I use to be in the same spot you are in now. I use to be so shy be afraid to open up. and for me I like to take the time to look around and see what type of crowd I am with. If I like what I see and if I see someone that I would like to meet and think we will be good friends than I just take a deep breathe let it go gain confident and introduce myself. But I strongly believe that I have grown out of my shyness my sister can tell too I am more out going than I use to be. I think it all just depends on the type of crowd you hang out with !