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What do you do when a girl who hated you dies and you are choked up about it?

I went to high school with her and she hated my guts because, long story short, I got in her business (defending her, mind you) and kind of was too "overly observant" in regards to her best friend. Anyway, I had no hard feelings towards her whatsoever and even though I didn't really know her (we spoke maybe twice and for a total of 5 minutes, and not since 2008) but I found out tonight she died a few hours ago and I feel bad about it. Sort of like I hate how things ended with us on a sour note and I never really had a chance to make mends or anything. I don't know why I feel this way but it just kind of hurts to know she's gone.

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Just write a letter to her. Saying everything. Lay it at her grave. She will know, and if you believe in God just ask him to tell her

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That's so sweet.. And so sad
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I feel that once a person goes to heaven, they know and see all just like God. If she is in heaven than she knows how you truly feel. Give the good Lord a prayer. I'm sure she'll be be God's side to hear it.

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Well you give her a wide berth, just as I assume you did in High
School. Remember many people to whom we are attracted possess those qualities we find admirable (namely ours) but have them in smaller quantity, thus the love/hate thing.

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That's one of life's harder lessons for sure. It makes us be more mindful of the way we are with people in our lives because we really never know who's next, or for what reason. Ouch

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