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What kind of personality could you never marry or date?

Me: I could never date or marry the type of person I like to call a goodie good. It's not that they're too good for anything; it's just that they aggravate me about how not understanding they are.

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Someone that is completely useless, never takes anything serious, spends money hand over fist, & just a general pain in the ***. It would never work, 1 of us has to be a grown up, & it sure won't be me.

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people who get jealous and wants everything and says they love you but they get you gifts every day and says "l love you "

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i do all of them
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ok ^_^
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A micro-managing authoritarian..

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That's perfect! I totally agree. I have a lot of patience but eventually would have to break free from the whole micro managing thing. Great answer.
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A hypocrite who knows it all, sounds awful !
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Winetastergirl!! Haven't seen you in a while.. Yep.. I couldn't deal with that without backhanding a guy like that, so it's best I don't deal with a guy like that! Lol.. And J.. Too true.. Thanks girls :0)
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Hello FS. I know it's been a while. Been working my arse off. Nice to see you:)
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Uh.... Someone who tries to kill random people over the stupidest of things.

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Oh, I love those people! Especially when it's a beautiful woman because that makes her even s3xi3r! Sorry, couldn't help myself.
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Nothing spoils a romantice moment more than a hostile psycho.
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I agree with you, goodies are bad, but I also hate overly religious people.

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Oh yeah. I hate overly religious people too. Im an atheist myself, but I cant stand the overly religious people. They aggravate me. I mean you make a clean argument with them or something or you disagree with them and they'll tell you you're going to hell and you should repent of your sins or something like that. They get way out of hand.
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Ah, good to meet a fellow atheist. We appear to be a dying breed.
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But you know, my "favorite" part, is when they think they have enough of a hold over you as to try and force you to convert. Then they act hurt when you refuse. It would appear that in a lot of people, religion incites stupidity.
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Yes, it does. Religion is about hope and security. It's also about brainwashing the younger ones. When you make a decent argument, they either act hurt or they say that they hope you will change your mind because they know it's what you should do. Religious people rely more on emotions rather than logic, which I find to be not a very decent argument.
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Personally, I choose to take the term"rest in peace" literally. I mean, life is long enough without having to drea.. I mean look forward to another one afterwards. The way I see it, once we die we have lived long enough, and there is nothing to fear from an everlasting sleep. Personally, I question the very inspirations of all of these religions, especially Christian disciplines.Then there is the whole fact that people do not seem to agree on the same subjects in the same faith. Like with gay people(I'm straight by the way), some priests say they are doomed to hell, others say that their god made them that way for a reason and they aren't condemned. Or exactly what heaven or hell entails. Plus there are about twelve different places where people swear their respective gods were born. I could go on forever on this subject. I do agree with you though, they do rely on emotions, particularly fear and sympathy. Neither emotion has served me very well in my life, so they are barking up the wrong tree. I find it hilarious, though, that so many people aren't smart enough to know when to stop. Don't you?
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Yeah, I do, too. I mean, I remember my uncle saying that he wakes up every morning almost sad that he didn't die in his sleep. Religious people don't realize it but the life we have now is all we need. I mean, once you get old enough (maybe to the age of 60-80), you're pretty much waiting to die. It doesn't matter if you're a believer or not. You're just waiting for your time to come.
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people who get jealous and wants everything and says they love you but they get you gifts every day and says "l love you "

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Lol I see what you did there...
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Smothering right?
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u put wat i put LoL ^_^
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The controlling type.

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Well, I agree but sometimes. A woman that does that isn't too bad sometimes. If she's not too too too too too controlling.
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To me I like when guys help me make decisions not make them for me. Lol
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You probably already know this, but someone who is very religious, or controlling.

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Yeah. I wouldn't be able to have children, though, with a person who wants to teach the children about god and jesus and all that stuff. Or a person who wants to send them to church.
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Yep. My kiddies are NOT being forced to learn that stuff
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Nor are mine. And that's why i'm not going to let either of my sisters babysit them. I refuse to talk to a child about god or jesus or have them go to church. That's stupid and you might as well call it mind r@pe
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cheater and insentive!

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A humorless pessimist. I'd have to.... *SLAP!* and then say, "Oops. Sorry bout that, my hand had a little-*SLAP!!* muscle spasm!" XD

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An optimist and an optimist can conquer the world! Stick with the positive side and save your hands :-)
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Lol!
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People who are "entitled" and/or self-absorbed.

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Ghetto girls.

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i would never be able to deal with someone who cant have a conversation.

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Ouch. That's kind of me. I'm a huge introvert. At the same time, though, I wouldn't be able to be with someone who talks through the entire conversation. It's like I say one thing and they just ramble on and on for like hours. And when they're finally done and I've been tired out just listening to them they're all "You seem quiet."
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haha, i'm a good listener so i like asking questions, i let them talk, and then they usually ask me a question, so its really down to technique for conversation that makes me good at it.
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Yeah, I was never good at it. Whereas most children start talking at the age of like 3 at most, I started talking when I was 5. That's why I failed preschool. Yes, I know I failed preschool!
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i think that entails that you actually are a good listener, and simply dont quite know how to apply it, i didnt start talking till i was two.
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Eh, maybe. I can listen but if people rant for too long then I just don't. It's somewhat. I'm more of a writer.
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yeah, i think you have simply chosen to not use it so much, because it does get boring eventually, but writing is fun, i write poetry mostly.
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ah. I like writing stories. I'm more of a psychological horror kind of person. I feel the human mind is the scariest thing in the world. I do write fan fiction, too. and every now and then I try to write some inappropriate things.
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hahaha, i am trying to write a book right now, because i feel like i have read all the good ones, i have like 100 basic story outlines i'm trying to choose from right now.
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Ah. Yeah, I'm kind of like that. The problem is that mine is psychological horror so it's like I can't just have the person ki!! someone; it has to be a sort of development.
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yeah, i like books with alot of action and fighting in the plot. but i cant just have my character go around and randomly fight whoever is around, for me there has to be a purpose to it, i'm trying to decide what the purpose is right now
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Well, don't have it be like he's trying to fight evil or find some treasure or something. That gets cliché really really quickly. You could add a twist to it and have the character actually be a bad person
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yeah, i generally like it that way, thats why i think vengeance is going to be my characters main motive, because then i can do anything with it, and make it so he has just as many bad traits as he does good traits, it makes him seem more real that way.
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possessive

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A pompous, self centered, know-it-all *beep* that will throw me under the bus in a heartbeat because I am self-sufficient and won't be controlled and dictated to by anyone.

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Anyone that will throw you under the bus is no friend, let alone a spouse huh?
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Exactly!
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I could never marry or date someone who's possessive, a goody good, is constantly correcting me, or someone who's abusive. I also couldn't date someone who is just using me.

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what do you classify as "possesive"?
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won't let me hang out with my friends, doesn't like me talking to other people. i was in a relationship like that and it sucked
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oh okay, i thought you meant you didnt like it when a guy says stuff like "you're mine" for a minute.
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no, that's fine with me.
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Someone with no sense of humor. Controlling and abusive. Ive been through that once. I WONT go through it again

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That's a bummer... Glad you are a free bird once again :-)
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bipolar

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Someone who rebuts everything you say in a conversation. Someone who crushes my light hearted, fun loving personality with a fatherly, way to serious personality. Someone who excessively talks, I love to talk and can handle a lot of talking, but I can't handle extreme, excessive talking. My muscles start to tighten and twitch my eyes get shifty, and I start singing a song in my head to block out the talking, like bohemian rhapsody.

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Good list, funny ending... I can picture that one perfectly.
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What would be funny is if at some point I blurt out "Will you let me go, LET ME GO" By the way Ii saw this funny you tube video of the muppets singing that song. it was really creative and funny.
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Did it involve an overbearing piggy and a wimpy frog lol?
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That froggy needs to..... Find a nicer girlfriend I think ;-)
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lol... waa waa waa (invokes charlie brown's teach)
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Yes J it did lol. As far as Ms. Piggy goes......bacon anyone. lol Hello SG How are you. Nice to see you.:)
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im great
just making sure i dont speak to "loudly" :)..
hope things are well with/for you too :)
you two have a super
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I don't picture you as the loud type. lol things are good. trying to tie up all loose ends. Going into the new year caught up on everything. Want to just chillax for the holidays.
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chillax away sweets.. happy holidays and happy dust n stuff
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A tomboy? ..I like them all girly!

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High maintenance right ;-)
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high maintenance but I cant stand tomboys..
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tomboys are awesome!
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Good for you!
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a clingy, needy, dependent personality that is jealous, and unfaithful cuz they think you are doing something, even if you aren't, so they cheat but remain jealous.

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That sounds awful!
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Are you describing a woman? That's what it sounds like to me
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yes, i am a guy- that is the type of gf/wife i wouldn't want to have. i had an ex that was close to all of that, minus the actual cheater part. but always said they would cheat cuz they assumed worse of me and any guy really, to which i said, go ahead, your loss.
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A religious zealot who has no compassion. Someone untrustworthy, because I would always question their sincerity. And a person with out ambition who complained about supporting a family. jeez I could go on and on lol!

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good start
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A homophobe.

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they have to be romantic and NOT into sex

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everyguy is into that but not all can control it:p
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ohh well learn to and i just realized that i answered the wrong question LoL oh well
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iKnow
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ahhaah =)
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hey your back(:
im not into sex:p
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Good luck with that... every guy and most girls are into s3x.
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some are
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