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Last edited at 7:42AM on 12/12/2012
Well, if you are inca literal closet, open the door. Figurative, think long and hard on who is the most trustworthy person to tell first, then, explain it to them and let them help you with telling it to others.
you dont have to, just remember that... if you still feel that you need to though, try telling someone that you know you can trust first, wether it be friend or family member. i know its hard, but you'll be okay
Serious? You can do it all at once, with family, or individually. You could write a letter. They probably already know, or suspect. MTV has a reality show called "My Life" they did a good episode on the topic. Once they got it out the "weight lifted" Good luck!
Tell your closest friend first. It helps when the person you trust the most stands beside you when you 'open the door' I went through this with my best friend. His parents and family were really excepting.
First of all, be proud of who you are, no one else can tell you who to be :) Kick that closet open! If you have a religious family, sit them down and tell them, but be sure to say that you are who you are and that can't be changed, but you really would like their support. It really helps if you have a good friend with you or a sibling who supports you. You're going to run into haters, I can tell you that now. But remember that you should never feel like you have to hide who you are. Remember to be confident in yourself, don't let haters get to you. If your family or the people you come out to have a problem with your sexuality, keep your head high. 'Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.'- Dr. Seuss