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how do you get over a broken heart? it says keep busy and emotional support i dont have any of that i am2 the the point where i want 2 die

look ok i wont hurt myself i promice i just need some help

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Break-ups are always difficult and keeping busy is a lot easier than it sounds. If it doesn't seem like you have emotional support through your family or peers, you can try to write down your feelings and thoughts to help you work through them. (And even though it may not feel like it, there is always someone who cares!) You can seek out support from others who have been there through networks online, a local church, or a fitness program in your area. Get out and exercise, listen to music, or try to find something you enjoyed doing as a kid to help you move on! It takes time, but it will get better.

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thanks yes i know it will b hard i wrote awhile back saying how can i find out if my fiance is cheating on me he admited he was and that he was in love with her and not me. its hard really hard but i am not going to hurt myself anymore over him casue i am not going to let him win but i what i dont get is he says he wants be friends but he is still calling me names but you know what he tells me he is all perfect man no one is perfect everyone out there has 1 or more flaws and he is far from it so am i. but i know that you dont tell ppl lies so they wont go do something crazy cause that will make the person even more down and out but you know what like that song by cinderella "YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU GOT TILL ITS GONE"
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breakups are difficult.but you always have a friend to lean on

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i wish i did have a friend to lean on i lost all those when i hooked up with him no one will talk to me i have tried
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Most areas have a crisis hotline. It can be best sometimes to talk to someone that has no involvement. An unbiased point of view can mean more than someone who knows the past. Just make sure you are honest to whomever you talk to or you will hurt no one but yourself. I think there are even chatrooms you can go to to talk to someone. Also if you are employed, most large companies have EIP (employee intervention programs), which offer free counseling. Or if you are a student, you may want to try talking to a guidance counseler:o)

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Relationships break for a reason. Rather than to suppress all past, accept responsibility for what happened and analyze the entire past relationship from the first moments of meeting until the last part of breaking.
If a relationship ever was less the for all love all the way - the you need to learn. Learn from any possible mistakes made. There is no relationship with only one part making mistakes. It is of no help to think of the partners mistake, because no one can change partner, but everyone can change self and thus learn to avoid same own mistakes all over again.
The law of karma applies to all people
http://www.kriyayoga.com/english/on_your_wings/lawofkarma.htm
- those believing in karma as well as blind ones. Just as a blind person may get sun burn!
How did the previous relationship BEFORE the last one start and end. What similar patterns in each relationship did you encounter. Have BOTH been fully ready and prepared for full and true love from the very beginning or did you start hoping to grow together and mature together?
When you start to suppress all past weeks, then you fail to learn from all and also fail to actually heal your heart.
A heart needs to be loving and fully open all the time., A heart as closed as a coconut will eventually break. The pain you feel is the pain cause to the ex-lover
http://www.kriyayoga.com/love_blog/post.php/1120
A truly loving heart never hurts or breaks but keeps on loving. True love never wants to own/possess a lover but wants each and everyone to be as happy as possible. That requires sometimes another one to become partner for life.
Instead of seeking distraction - take your time to face reality. Make extended walks into nature, pray to God and ask for help.
http://www.kriyayoga.com/english/on_your_wings/love_prayer.html
Do a love prayer and allow God to heal your heart and guide you into a more loving future. God is your best friend in all such cases as God loves all - you and your ex as well.
Never ever allow a painful past experience to fall in love again.

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