I think this is not ok! you both married, and like u said with children. You both need to talk and think very seriously about what decisions ya going to make. Family comes first, no matter what, my opinion
1 year ago
Last edited at 12:42AM on 9/27/2011
If she really cares about you as much as she says, why is she asking you to abandon your family and why has she come to you now? Is she on the rebound and really needs a good friend instead? These are the questions I would be asking my self if I were you. You have to decide for yourself if it is worth losing your family over and I hope you think carefully before you decide. Maybe she really just needs some support right now and you can give it to her, but maybe only as a good friend.
You are both married ! There are spouses who love you, children looking up to you for their love , security, and to be a role model. It would be selfish to hurt so many people . This is a difficult situation and I understand the emotions compelling you to make a change but the grass isn't always greener