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Rephrasing? my guy & i were enjoying quiet time, being imtimate, he says that i scare him, but in a very good way. How do i interpret this?

Should i back off, move slower? How can i scare him?

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It means he is falling in love. It is a scary thing to do. Just keep being yourself and things we be fine.

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Good call.
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Yep, & possibly you may be more experienced..
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He's afraid he's going to ... um ... well, did you ever see "She Out Of My League"? haha

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ha-ha!
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i don't think that he ment it badly. i think that he is into you.

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literally
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hahahaha.. took me a minute.. That would be so weird if you where doing the nasty with someone, and they looked at you and said "you scare me".. Bahahaha
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It means he is deathly afraid of you. You should drastically slow it down, if not break up with him immediately. If not, you risk ruining everything between you. He was just being kind when he said in a good way.

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I disagree. He's falling in love with her!
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Maybe he's scared of how much he likes you.

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i very much agree with what gatorblu said ^ about him falling in love (or his feelings for you are growing), but its a scary thing for him (sometimes falling in love or having deep feelings scares people when its a new feeling for them, usually because of the commitment involved). but you should talk to your boyfriend about it and ask him to explain what he meant and what he wants you to do. communication is so important in a relationship.

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