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Is it bad that my bf is way to jealous?

Ok well I was txting my boyfriend and I told him I was curling my hair and he says "why? ,are u going to go see someone?" And im like "no ,im just going to go see my friends" and he got all jealous and worked up over that and he doesnt let me hug guys or even talk to them ,and im like "im not going to cheat on you ,you can trust me" but he just doesnt ,so he is the jealous type, so what can I do to stop him from feeling like this? And for him to control himself? So what should I do? Thanks

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You should break up with him ,and go out with me ;) goshh...you're so $exy! ;) <3

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Haha!
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wtf
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sounds more like he doesn't trust you...

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No! It's WAY better having someone be scared to lose you rather than not caring.

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True that
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Thanks finally someone say it
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Or end up stuck & scared to leave him.
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I see what you describe as being "way too jealous". Simply telling him that you are curling your hair should not make him immediately think you are going to see another male. You can't control this in him or make him different. If you like worrying that any word that comes out of your mouth might be the one to set him off, keep seeing him. If not, it is better to part ways now. You are dating, the purpose of dating is to see what the other person is like in different situations. His way of being is not healthy for you.

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I agree. I didn't think that when I was 21... but wish I would've known: it gets worse, always. Imagine if you lived together! First signs of abuse hun.
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he is a bit controlable but it isnt bad so dont be worried..

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