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So should I ask my best friend but theirs a problem and I need help :(

I feel like I should ask her out even my guy best friend sees that we can be a good couple but I'm afraid out friendship might ruin if it didnt work out just fine and now I dunno what to do? so pls any advices :)

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If you really like her then do it before somebody beats you to it. You should do what your heart desires.

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Thnx I'm just scared but I might do it :)
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You should always take a risk but if she doesn't like you that's not a good risk does she like you? If so ask her how she would feel and if so you decide to ask her or no don't go on with what people usually tell you to do

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I think she does cause she hangout with me every time and she likes to jump into my convos with my friends by tickling me or just talking to me an all those stuff
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Tell her your feelings and that you would like a chance to be with her. If she responds in a positive way, then hope for the best. That nothing happens in both of yours' relationship. If something bad happens, and you guys break up, make sure you tell her that you would still like to be friends. That things should go back to the way they were before. Just don't force anything onto her, by saying, " You need to be my best-friend again." Say it in a very formal and nice way.

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Yeah that sounds like a plan
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Well, you're welcome. Don't be scared of rejection though. By all the details in your comment to JesseLover27, it really does seem like she likes you a lot. There is a huge chance that she will want to date you. Just man-up and tell her how you really feel. If it feels better to do it, then just joke around a little bit with her to get your self-esteem up. After that, you can tell her.
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Haha yeah I'll ask her in a jokingly way
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Haha I didn't say that, but you can do that.
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Yeah so if she say no ill say I'm just kidding
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And today I have her my Spanish book and she hug me in the back cause I was going out to the door to go to my next class and I just hold her hand cause I can't hug her and she said i suck at hugs and I said you hugged me in the back so how am I going to hug you back
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Sahaja
Okay, that's not a good idea. Just don't joke around with her, period. I know I said, that you can, but it's actually a bad idea. Just suck everything in and tell her how you feel about her, and how you actually feel.
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Oh I mean I gave her not have her book
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Sahaja
Awww, that's so cute... she really likes you. You really need to tell her what I just said to you, before some other guy asks her out.
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Haha yes and she send me a picture but I didn't recieve it hmm mystery lol
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If you do receive it. Don't tell me what it consists of. I don't want to know haha
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Haha lol she said nvm ad I know she doesn't do that kind of stuff
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Sahaja
If it was a pretty picture of her. Like, all dressed up pretty, then it would be fine, but if it was something bad, then it wouldn't be fine.
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Lol she said she was supposed to send me a pic of his music piece cause she needs help with it and I said I'll help her tomorrow :)
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Sahaja
That's nice of you and you know what? That's a perfect time to tell her how you feel and ask her out.
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And she told me that we should do origami together some day
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Origami. Are you guys Chinese or something?
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I'm asian she's white but she knows how to and I know more than her
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First, you Asian people are so cute. Second, you two are going to be a great couple.
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Awww thnx and I gotta go sleep cause I still have school tomorrow and I need to be early for something Important :) night
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Okay :) I should probably go too. Good luck and good night.
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Oh, and you're welcome.
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Haha sorry if I just reply now and I'll talk to you later if I'm home or if I'm free
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