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Why would she pick my lil brother over me?

Im hot, funny, smart , athletic, im the whole deal Why must I be the only one in pain

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You seem to full of yourself.
Thats my guess why.

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well he's not wrong about the hot part.....
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Yes he is.
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nah...
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Humble too....

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Lol good one. XD
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Lol
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haha thanks I try(;
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Whaat? I thought this was an old one. My mom says it all the time and she's really into old jokes. Haha.
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Uh what?
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Whenever I say "I'm hot [temperature]" she makes a joke and says "And modest, too."
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I mean I was just saying it, it's just a saying...lol
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Oh haha.
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What is Synesthesia Marcus?
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Synesthesia is a neural condition in which two or more senses cross paths. In my case, my sight and hearing cross paths and my touch and hearing cross paths. So I hear vision and touch.
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That's why it sounds so familiar! We learned about that in psych! Thats cool, so do you like see music? Cause I watched a video on a lady that could see music in colors. Interesting :)
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I don't see music. Synesthesia is specific in each individual. But yes, there are other people who see music. I bet any kind of synesthesia is possible. :)
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So specifically what happens with you?
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I hear sight and touch. :)
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I mean, I hear visual movement and I hear it when things touch my skin.
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Wow thats so cool. Does it ever annoy you though?
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Nope, our brains are made to sense, aren't they? :)
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Lol well that's good :)
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Yep. You have five senses, isn't it annoying having to process all that? :P
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Haha no:P I never thought of it like that! Toucheee
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Yep, it's just like that. For me, anyway. Other synesthetes might see it differently.
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Have you ever met someone else that has that?
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Yeah, a few people. I had to kinda search, though.
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You have your own special club! :D
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None of them held a friendship. :/
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Aw I'm sorry:( I'll join your club! Even though I'm not all special like you lol :P
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Being a synesthete doesn't make me special. It's as easy for me to be selfish and mean as it is for anyone else. And hey, you're the one who declared a club. ;P
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I was just joking around :P hope you aren't mad lol
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Oh okay. No, I'm not mad!
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Okay good haha. I don't like it when people are in bad moods, it's no fun xD
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I'm definitely not in a bad mood. :) Haha.
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Yaay for fun moods! :)
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Maybe because he's less stalkerish.... Or less obsessive....Just running through the possibilities.

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That might be the problem: you seem a little self-absorbed. Girls like guys with humility. Don't be so cocky. Sorry to be so honest, but just because you feel a certain way about yourself, doesn't mean everyone else is going to. practice humility.

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She likes the opposite of what you are

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Some girls like guys that make them feel pretty I doubt this to be the case though. I would say a my likely theory is that she likes his personality rather then trates.

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Im the same but i dont consider myself as "hot" or "pretty"

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Mabey u should talk to her about it but don't be full of your self

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Well as much as we girls love guys who are full of themselves...try not to be. Just an idea

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Lol, because you're a doucheb@g, but to be fair, NOT cool to date your ex's sibling...

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1. We CANNOT stand guys who think they are "all that". All it does is make you seem self-absorbed, uncaring, and too good for everyone else.

2. Stalking people will only cause them to distance themselves from you. Also, it is one of the creepiest things you can do.



(This has nothing to do with the question, but vampirism doesn't make stalking attractive either!!)

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Look it's ok to have confidence in yourself, but too much is just bad. You seem like your a cocky little b**** that thinks your better than everyone else. No wonder why she won't go out with you!! I wouldn't either!!

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Defiantly: such a turn-off!
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Maybe you should be focused on what she looks like and her perks- not your own

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well if you would get over yourself then mabey she would like you a little bit more.......................... plus talking about how your all that just makes it awkward

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Hey, sorry people are bullying you here. I get that you were just trying to list your good traits so people would understand why you're confused that she wouldn't pick you. Honestly though, it can depend on a lot of things, mostly having to do with the girl's own preferences and emotions. And don't ever think that you're the only one in pain, that's bullsht.

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It's one thing to mention good traits about yourself, but saying "I'm the whole package" is a bit much.
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i dont wanna make you feel bad but you sound kinda full of yourself and like a jerk...

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there could be something about your little bro's personality that shes drawn to more then yours. try to see if you can watch them when your all together and see what it is that hes doing/saying to make her be drawn to him. then maybe if its not too late, try to win her back....idk its a shot in the dark here. she could be also too childish for you mentally and not ready for someone older. some chicks like to be in their own little world where everything is perfect and if you disturb (or down fit) that then they toss you to the side.

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you seem that you are all about yourself and girls get tired of that

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Dude. That's effed up. Leave that chick alone. Not worth it, and if thats you in the pic...nice! Don't worry about other people. If you think your hot, hey! that's super cool. Better to be Hella confident than thinking down on yourself! :D Love your hair btw. XD

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WHy do you think she like's your bro?

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love suck join the club

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Well idk about athletic smart and funny but you are Hot.

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Maybe she likes something about your brother that you don't have or maybe you have something that she doesn't like but whatever her loss what's yo name ha ha jk but you you are pretty hot but Joshua is still fine :D THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA :D

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Sometimes love is just like that. You didn't choose to love her, and she didn't choose to love your brother. Love just happens.

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maybe she wasn't seeing what you wanted her to see

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