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What is he thinking?

my boyfriend will sometimes randomly make eye contact with me and he just sits/stands there for a really long time without blinking or anything until someone walks up, then we break eye contact! does anyone know what he might be thinking? (I'm not complaining, I like it, I'd just like to know what he is most likely thinking)

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His future with you maybe

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Maybe, he's not really the type to think about his future with a girl or anything though.
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Oh ok just saying ever guy thinks different though
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True!
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Thanks!
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No problem
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What are you thinking during these stare moments?
I was thinking maybe he is trying to get into your thoughts so he is really not thinking anything so he might hear your thoughts.
I hate to say it but it sounds pretty deep, too deep for most guys to even think to try that but you would know better than us. Have you ever asked him what he is thinking at that moment?

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I'm thinking "he is so handsome, how on earth did I end up with a guy this good, too good for me. I wonder what he is thinking about!" Yeah I've asked him, he never answers, just stays silent!
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And he is a really 'deep' kind of guy, nothing that would be considered to girlish for a guy would be considered to girlish for him! We sometimes joke that he has a man period lol!
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Hmm...that's cool. I like guys that are deep in a manly way. Your lucky to have that. One day hopefully he will open up to you and let you know what's up.
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He finally told me what he is thinking in those moments, it's a lot of things! That are all awesome and sweet!
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That's great! I'm really happy for you.
It must be a relief to know it's all good.;)
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Haha yeah it is!
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When a guy says nothing when he's think that's probably the honest answer (this is coming from close guy friends). Most guys don't think into things or over think things or really try to find a deeper meaning in things. Their mind processes what is going on but they just process what is going on on the surface. To a guy when grass is brown the grass is brown but to a girl when the grass is brown that's because of the cold weather and cold weather means it's getting close to winter and winter means holiday season and ooo what am I going to wear for our holiday dinner? And what am I going to bring for that dinner? Girls think way deeper into things than guys do.

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That's not really him, he thinks way deeper than any guy I know, sometimes even more than me!
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