Being mad should be a short lived loss of control followed up by behaviour very soon after that shows he's gotten over it and is fond of you. If the "reversal" doesn't come quick and he enjoys dwelling on his power-play then he is not mature enough for you. Plenty of males hardly ever get mad, its not a solution. If he has bouts of anger, you may be taking on a partner with issues that will later dominate the pair of you... do you need that ?
You shouldn't have to tiptoe around a partners anger.
kiss him like around his neck n his mouth n his arms while telling him you really are sorry with a soft voice. use words that can make him believe n tell him you really love him. trust me he will be defeated but only if he loves u