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So say you like a guy but don't want to get friend zoned. What do you do?

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DONT:
Text him a lot
Ask him on a date
Obsess over him
Stare at him a lot
Talk about him to your friends a lot
Point at him
Show up at his house
Hug him, unless he is hugging you first
Be fake
Be available all the time

DO:
Smile at him
Laugh at his jokes
Be confident in yourself
Act like you do with your close friends
Respond to his texts
Let him pay for meals
Dress nice
Do your hair

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I liked the "let him pay for meals" part! lol Even without it, that is a VERY good answer!!
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Well thanks :)
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I also love your answer, very to the point. :-)
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Thanks to you too :D
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Well there is a reason someone friend zones you.

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flirt with him a lot, and make sure that he is aware that you don't want friendship, but a relationship. Unfortunately like allabella said, if he doesn't like you, not matter how much you flirt, he is not going to date you.

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flirt with him and be obviouse that you like him dont just tell him though and after a while if he doesnt ask u out ask him if he says no you get friend zoned anyways

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i don't know if the same logic works with girls but like mikelc said flirt alot all the girls that i think are cute im not in the friend zone with them and at the same time im not dating them have fun and good luck :)

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Just be yourself. If you pretend; one, you wont feel as comfortable around him. Two, pretending causes a lot of stress. Three, you can't pretend forever! And friend zone is better than nothing, right? I've been in the friend zone before, and I personally think it's great!

There's one boy in my class right now who I think may like me, and we are really good friends. Thing is, I don't like him back. I wouldn't be bothered if I found out he liked me though. He's really nice. He's also a good listener and doesn't seem to judge people!

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Flirt..and just hang out with him and act like your self and get pretty close to him, then maybe when the time is right, tell him how you feel.

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Ask him to woo hoo

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I don't understand why being "friend zoned" is such a bad thing. All my boyfriends (there hasn't been that many) started out as friends and developed in to a relationship. Be his friend and let things develope naturally. And if it doesn't, what's so bad about having a friend? Listen to Ninja_Jackie_San, her's was a good answer. Good Luck.

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Ask him out. be confident!!!

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