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Please what can i do. i hurt so much right now but i dont wanna cut, please what can i do [read more]

ok my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago, and now shes pretty much just using me as a safety net just in case she can't find a guy like me (because according to other girls im such a sweet generous kind hearted guy, but yet a hott guy walks by and theyre gone.) i would run back to her in a second because im an idiot and i just let girls walk all over me. im so tired of this.

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You need to start respecting yourself enough to not let someone else use you. That is an issue you have with you. Realize that you are a nice, good hearted person and you deserve the same.

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thank you that is actually really good
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that how i was with my ex he always walked all over me and not to long ago he came back and i knew not to take him!! if she doens't treat you right u dont take it!!!

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but i love her and im stupid. i am a great guy and i treat all girls with respect, and ive always sacrificed everything for them but i just keep getting stepped on. is that what happens when a person sees someone vulnerably nice they just step on them. thank you for the adviice though
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You should tell her that she isn't treating u right.

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i will thank you
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AJ I answered your question last night told you I've been that girl to use a guy as a safety net. I Didn't tell you that she will probably eventually regret losing a good guy. Her not being emotionally ready to love a good guy is no fault of yours , it's her issue. In time you will find a girl that appreciates and adores you for you and all this wont matter.

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thank you. im just so tired of being lied to. i just wanna be happy for a while. but im not gonna complain it just hurts but thank you for this comment it makes me feel better
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Trust me us girls are messed up at times but we always look back and regret letting the good ones get away , you seem like a sweet kid , I'm sure you'll find someone who appreciates you in time . Her loss!
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haha thanks
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Find a girl that will treasure you dont be a fool for love... Hope I helped I understand how you feel.. -.-

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hang out with friends. don't let her treat you like that and you should tell her that what shes doing hurts. trust me one day a girl will realize how great you are and respect you :) go have some fun with friends. go to the movies go mini golfing. if your old enough go to a bar. do something to get away from her.

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Don't change but stay away from her.. Man up..

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