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My boyfriend wants to move across the country to be with me should he?

I'm 16 and hes 18. I don't know how its going to work out if he lives close every relationship iv had and i saw them every day they left me but iv been with him for going on 2 years now. I love him to death and don't want to lose him.

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wow, that seems like an awful lot of pressure to put on a 16 year old...if he lives cross country, how is he your boyfriend? an on-line thing?

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Yes that means he loves you alot . I wish I could do that to my girlfriend

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Any time
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Wait some years? Your still under 18

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ill be 17 in 3 months
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icic6772
Well then wait 3 months.
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the state i live in 16 is league
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If you don't think it will work out close, then it probably won't work out in the long run. Just saying...

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You just answered your own question. You're young, but if he makes you happy go for it? If things don't work out, life goes on. You live and learn.

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no lol

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wait do get him in jail

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in the state i live in 16 is lie age
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What state is that?
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Nevada and im almost 17
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Ahh... Of course it's nevada.
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Easy this happend 2 me but I talk 2 her on skype (it actually works REALLY well)

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I would say go for it, but have back up plan to be able to get back just in case.

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if he loves you and you love him it's not a bad idea

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No

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im almost 17
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That's so nice! It would be nicer if it wasn't illegal though.

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its not
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Your 16.
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He's 18
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in the state i live in 16 is league age and im almost 17
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Well wait til you're 17.
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i hate YOLO so i cant believe im saying this but you only live once so go for it we live we learn we love and we make mistakes...PS that doesnt mean go do something stupid and when someone ask why you did it yell YOLO....just saying :/

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Why don't you ask your parents what they think. It's a beautifully romantic thought But... Where will he live, how will he support himself and continue a relationship with you.
It's difficult enough for an adult with a College Degree to move cross country and find a place to live and a job. Why don't you both continue on and get an education and then see where you're at. Good luck to both of you, whatever you decide, I hope it works out for you both.

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he dropped out in 9th grade and has been working sense he has money saved up and hes already come to stay with me before theirs a job waiting for him when he gets down here all he needs is to lease on this apartment that iv been helping him to get i
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Well then, I'd say both of you have already made up your minds on what you're going to do.
Again, I wish both of you nothing but good times and a long, healthy life together.
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I d wait on it!! Ur too young!!

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