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One of my guy friends completely stopped talking to me....

This month he hasn't talked to me at all. he handed me a paper like a prince would when asking a girl to dance. then my friend who was standing next to me whispered in my ear that "oooooohhhhhhhhh he likes you!!!!!!" and then stupid me said "no we are just friends" i do like him but i didn't know how he felt about me and my friend, always tries to make couples so,i was nervous that she would try to pair us together, because i didn't know how he felt about me, i didn't want to make things awkward, but when i say "hi" or wave to him he won't even say hi back have i knocked him into the dark abyss of friend zone? cause after i said that he stopped talking to me:(

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Go talk to him. Just go up to him and say "You've been avoiding me. Could you tell me what's wrong?" Or some variation of that.

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I have tried..... But it didnt go well.....
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Well he is a bad friend. Just because you did something so little you didn't even notice what you did doesn't mean he should just ignore you. I would say sever off the friendship for now and see how he reacts. May I ask what was on the slip of paper, or is it personal?
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No but it did say hey you wanna hang out sometime but he normally asked me in person if i wanted to go hang out and i thought it was like any other time
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Hmm. Well I honestly don't know anymore. Sorry :(
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Ok thank you for the help but he was blushing when he handed me the paper.................
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Well that seals the deal. He probably likes you. Just let the problem sit for a while and come back later, when he's over it a little bit.
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Ok thanks
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Admit that you like him and see if that helps. He's likely just hurt right now. If you don't want to admit it, then just give him some time.

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Good one less xmas card to send im just saying

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Good point....
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From a guys perspective, he probably feels rejected, that's a horrible feeling for a guy. If he truly likes you, you'll have to convince him that you truly like him and are attracted to him (if you truly are) or he's going to think you're just trying not to hurt his feelings as you and he did have a friendship before. Let him know why you said what you did, that you didn't know that he was attracted to you as well. If he really likes you and you can convince him that you truly like him in the same "not just friendship" way, he'll be relieved.

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