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What should I do , I'm seriously feeling bad for what happened in Connecticut ..?

I can't stop crying and I don't know any of those kids I live close to where it happened and I know that area ..:(

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Be supportive. And, pray for the families. It is natural for us, being normal humans, with real emotions to be upset. Perhaps take some flowers to see at the site. It was such a tragedy, that I know millions feel just as we do. And, if you are feeling that you cannot get over or past the grief, seek out some counseling. I have heard there has been an offer for free grief counseling in your area. Hang in there.

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Star !!!!! Well said....
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If you have a religion, pray, never helps for me, but you could try it :o or listen to some inspirational music :o

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Prayer does help. You, as did I, in my early christian days, I felt just like you. What you have to understand that God DOES always answer our prayers but often times we expect it right away. You do not always get the answer you want, but Jesus Christ will give you the answer he knows is best for you. Don't give up. he always reveals his reasoning, in HIS time.
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Pray <3

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Donate support.

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Um you should go over ther and um, kick the dead guy in the noots, and um yea that's about it

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Pray

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There's nothing wrong with crying. Actually it's very therapeutic & cleans the Soul.

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candybar

This is how we felt during 9/11. Even worse.

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boondox4l

write a letter to the parents and give support

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just think about everything

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Call your friends or go over there

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There's nothing wrong with feeling bad or crying. This is a national tragedy and even the president was teared up and had a lump in his throat as he spoke about it. I'm an old man who never cries but I cried today. See if you can pray for those poor little souls. It'll not only help them, It'll help you too.

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Pray for those affected by this tragedy...

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indeed!!!!!
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cutsandscars

You can't do anything. What's done is done. You can't change it.
I think it's really sad, and I would never wish this even on my worst enemy, but I don't get why people are crying unless they knew the victims personally. You don't cry for the thousands of people who die at war protecting YOUR life, do you? Yea, didn't think so.

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as much as I apreciate our soldiers and I apreciate them risking their lives 24 hours of the day, this tragedy is different. First of all it comes out as a shock because who would ever in their mind think that kids were going to be slaughter like that in a place that most of us considered safe. Second This is a tragedy because kids cannot protect themselves, that is why they have us, grown ups to help them and to take care of them. To think that someone could kill a child without a second thought is barbaric. This is shocking too because it hit our home country, and it hit us where it hurts the most. Our soldiers volunteer to join the armed forces, this children did not volunteer to get killed like that. It was very cruel and very sad. I am honest to say that it makes me cry because it makes me think of my nieces and nephew who go to school. It makes people cry because some houses this christmas are going to have some presents, but no child to give to.
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Yes, I agree with you, but their are kids in other countries dying because of our troops invading their land, yet no one cries to Obama to bring the troops home. I agree with you 100%, but I'm just saying I find it baffling.
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*there
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I agree that children in other countries are dying because of the troops AND the rebelling forces fighting against eachother. There are tons of people, including me, asking Obama to bring our troops back home. However, we are in too deep over there to just pull them out. If we pull them out all of the sudden, there will be more innocent people dying.
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In any case these is not about our troops, this is about innocent lives being killed in here in the states, and how we can't protect our children against every danger out there. This is about the void and pain, the impotence of helping those in need, of the desire to help, but not to be able to do anything.
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Crude, cruel, unfeeling and uncalled for cutsandscars. You have no idea who cries for what. I wish I'd never read your "answer"
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I said I felt bad for them too. And I do. I'm just confused on why people will cry for this, but not the kids dying because of our troops at war. It doesn't make sense to me. So excuse me for actually expressing my feeling towards a topic.
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It's not my place to excuse you and I'm expressing my feeling toward your answer. Good luck to you!
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It hits home with you more,

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I know. The whole thing was so sick and twisted! So senseless! I can't even imagine what kind of hell the families of the victims are going through tonight. And two weeks before Christmas too! All those innocent kids, hardly more than babies, dead!
It makes no sense!!!!

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sadly I totally agree
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Just pray. It's all you can do
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Yes.
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I feel bad two. It's worst than the Batman theatre shooting and Columbine and Virginia Tech.

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I didn't hear about the Batman Theatre shooting, can you tell me about it :o?
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Look it up a man was wearing body armor and had a rifle and pistol and smoke grenades at a movie theatre in Colorado it happened on the day The Dark Night Rises came into theaters and not a lot of people tried to get away because they thought it was part of the movie because of how loud the volume is and they didn't leave until the smoke grenades went boom.
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50 people got injured and 12 or 18 people died one was a 6 year old girl.
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Pray for the families... It's all we can do.

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Bosnian_Dude

Bad things happen,its a big world and people are evil,im also very sorry for the poor innocent kids, they are in a better place,and hope the killer rots in hell,many kids thousounds were also killed in Bosnia just cause of our religion..its sad but what can we do now.

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That's why I feel bad because I know I have seen worser and it hurts :(
Well not only because of religion also because those ass**s wanted to steal a land can u believe it ..? Pf
They didn't thou :))
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Your from Bosnia that's nice I love those people true ancient ppl in Europe
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Bosnian_Dude
yes i am Bosnian..i have seen what u have too in real life during the war in Bosnia...it was war.
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spring_0
Bosnia the best :)
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Albania is best aslo;)
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also***
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Thanks :) n I don't know whats wrong it says I have a notification when I open it it's nothing :/ i can see it after 40 mints lol
does it happen to u
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