I've broken up with my gf after a 3 year relationship because of her parents. They control her way to much and it has ruined my life....
Ok, so I started dating her at 15 and she was 14 going on 15. we date behind her parents back because they are super strict. at the end they found out and I stood my ground saying I would remain her bf no matter what they say. her mother challenged me by telling me that whatever I'm experiencing is puppy love and that if I wanted a real relationship with her daughter to wait until we were both 18. as of today's date....three years later. she controls our relationship still. my now ex-gf lives and pays her own apt and her own bills all except the new car her parents use to hold her up against. my gf's apt is about 60 miles from where I live cuz that's where she goes to college and she comes down to her parents house on the weekends cuz that's the town that I live also and she visits me....sometimes only when her parents allow it. they control when she talks to me and when and where she goes with me. she is the only person I wanna be with but I have to let her go because she refuses to stand up for herself. and that has caused her to not give me the affection I desire out of my relationship. what can I do??? we've dated since freshman year and i still love her. but it isn't right for me to keep letting myself get pushed around like some kind of little 12 year old. I have proven to her parents that I'm serious. I kept my word to her mother who had lost her challenge by doubting me I wouldn't last a year with her. I've spoiled my gf with diamonds and gold with my hard hustled money just to see her smile on Xmas. I miss her so damn much when she's away and when she comes to town her parents don't let her go out with me. I've never gotten high, or drunk, no tattooes, clean shaved and clean cut. I'm a really nice guy. she sees how bad this has effected me, but acts like its my fault. I just wanna spend time with the person I love the most, is that too much???
