Start thinking of yourself as a lion and watch your prey and don't let any other lion feast in what you have down as your dinner. We're men bro, go get what you want don't wait for it. She will get snatched up if you don't react. I once asked out a girl and told me no....the reason for that is cuz a guy had asked her out a minute before I did and she told me she had already said yes. And the sad part is that they actually made a great couple.