Why ya gotta "spend the rest of your life" with either of them? You might break up with either one if you jump into it too fast. Go out on several dates with each and figure out which one is more compatible, but keep in mind that they may decide you're not the one for them at anytime during this weeding out phase.
I would pick the 31 yr old, don't be a cougar :)
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I doubt you're ready to choose the person you should spend the rest of your life with if you believe your in love with two men, stay single for now!
How the heck did you let yourself fall in love with two guys? I'm sure your heart will tell you which guy to go with. Good luck making the right choice.
Go with the one that is the smartest and respectfull!
forgive me pleas
you dont know what is love !!
love is only for one person !! not for the public !!
love is like life you cant separate it to two person !!!
thats my opinion
i dont mean that type of love
what iam talking about between man and woman !!!
Intentionally set up a stressful situation for each (independently) and see how they react...you should be looking for adult behavior, i.e. behavior that wants to understand and work the issue...unilateral reactions and/or childish reactions should be noted...after you get the results, remember people don't change their behavior to stress very much over the years...long term there will be many stressful situations that will tax the relationship..ideally you will get insight into this and it may help you choose....if both behave poorly...keep looking
I dont think you an truly be in love with two people.
If you were really in love, you wouldn't need to be asking complete strangers for advice online.
Have you thought about the possibility that maybe you are hurting both of them, and you look like a sl~t ?
What's the rush to choose one over the other. Date them both (as long as they both know that you are 'dating' another) .. and let your relationship grow into something more decisive.
The eenie meenie minie moo .. is not a great way to choose a lifelong partner.
Pffff! Your so gunna pay for either decision you make
If you are 23 there is no reason to think you've ever met the person you should spend the rest of your life with. If you know 2 decent guys that you really like then it may be time to figure out who you should commit to. It's probably time for you to understand yourself when you don't have a spare around. I wish you luck and hope it is better than you think. But if not you do have plenty of time to find Mr. Forever.
Use the older guy for security, and the younger one for unbridled fun.
Bend over, spread, and let them jam it in you one at a time. The one that screams " who's the boss now" is the one.
I would tell them both and see who dumps you.. Maybe both because I know I would. Just my thought.
Love is a choice and u probably like them both. But one will doubtfully b enough for u having already enjoyed playing 2. The one hardest to tell about the other is the one u like most.
18 is too young for marriage 31 is more suitable but then again i don't know how he thinks its not enough information sorry...
Pick the one you fell into love with second. if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen in love with someone else...
you cant love too guys and if you are asking this question you probably shouldn't date either.
Sounds like a false dilemma. Why must you, at 23, choose either one? One sounds too old for you, and the other too young.
If you can't choose between the two, then I would say neither. If the person you should spend the rest of your life with, was in the selection of men, you'd know hands down.
if u really loved the frist one you wouldnt have fallen for the second
Which One treats you better and makes u happy?
Spend rest of life with that guy, who loves you more then you did. All the best...:)
Both, you can marry both if you move to Utah. I am sure the 31 year old likes kids enough for the both of you. It would mean some mad play!
getting involved w/2 men is never really a good idea. just choose the one that u know will love u the most and will always love
MINI MINNI MOE!
Just kidding :D Put them in a crazy test (Like bait) Whoever doesn't fail,go for them!
when your in love with someone that means there "the one". if they were the one of your life they were the one then you wouldnt see anyone else. since you have the issue of picking that means neither is the one you wanna spend the rest of your life with.
how can you choose the minor? it is question of life.
