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pianoknot

So, I'm very interested in this guy who goes to my church, but I don't think he notices me. What can I do?

I'm 18 and he's 22. What are some simple ways to get him to notice me? I'm a little nervous to just go up to him and talk to him...

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Emaya

You have to talk to him, anything else is phoney. Try to think of something to say about the sermon.

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Strike up a conversation with him or maybe if you have any projects offer to do one with him

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talk to him about god invite him to lunch

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cutsandscars

Guys don't like girls who can't be themselves.
And personally, I don't think they like cowards either. So just talk to him.

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get some body to do it for u

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Rodgertal

smile at him

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Depends on the guy.Shallow guys are looking for an "easy" girl.Try to find something in common,I like a certain type of music...go from there.

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try to walk by him and just say hi and smile and inrtoduce ur self let him say his name and say it wus a pleasure to meet u. and u do the rest. try to make eye contact and if he stares back he notices u

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pianoknot
Thanks for advice! It's great!
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ur welcome. to know how to get to guys ask a guy lol
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If you have a friend who knows him, have him introduce him to you. And we guys like it when a pretty girl likes us, and you're definitely not ugly :) if you're around him, a good way to start a convo is to compliment him in some way. Maybe say you like his shirt and ask him where he got it. If there's a friend who you think would like it, maybe say, "I have a friend who would like that. Where did you get it from? I might go there and get him something for Christmas."

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Good idea! :D
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just say hi or hey and introduce yourself and let the conversation flow

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Str!p tease during one of the hymns, up at the front. He'll notice you. ;)

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You are terrible!!!! Lol what church do u go to . You may have a new member in the congregation tomorrow!
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Can I get an Amen!
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I'm not so terrible! I don't go to church.....but I used to. Too bad, I was looking forward to you! : ( I got kicked out for doing a str!p tease during a rowdy hymn! ......and yes......AMEN! = )
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Walk right up to him and introduce yourself. Smile and ask him if he would like to go to lunch.

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Pray about it. The Bible says "he that findeth a wife finds a good thing." Be yourself and if he's for you God will lead him to you

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