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Is it rude to kiss someone,under the mistletoe?

This afternoon, my senior class had a early Christmas party at a place we rented. There was a mistletoe hung up in a room that look like a balcony. There was a girl in there, so I walked in there, and started to have a chat with her. As we talked, I saw a mistletoe, and kissed her. She was blushing, and she told me to get away from her. I told my friend about it and he said it was kinda rude.... was it.

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well its rude to do it to some random girl who you havent really gotten close with i mean really being under the mistletoe doesnt give you the free right to kiss anyone under the mistletoe. plus youre supposed to sorta announce the presence of the mistletoe first then look to see if she is reacting in a positive way

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Well as I said before it was a party for my "Senior class." I knew the girl.
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did you know her well enough to have anything in common and enough to establish a relationship upon
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Well we knew each other for four years.
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youre not answering my question.
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Well... we are friends, I have her phone number. Is that enough.
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no you arent listening. do you have a lot in common, do you guys flirt for fun, do you guys talk to each other a lot. you cant randomnly just go up to her and kiss her if you havent established even a bit of knowledge on whether or not she sort of liked you
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Fine, you are very persistent. Here is the gist of our relationship. we talk with each all the time, specially when we are paired with projects. Actually I was planning to ask her to prom this year. I wanted to ask her then, so I did not have to ask her later. Are you happy.
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kazarina
AJ is right. Unless she is inviting of your kiss then you have invaded her privacy. I am saying this kindly as if you don't know certain behaviour may upset people then you will continue it & loose friends. So just be careful in future who you kiss under the mistletoe. Merry Christmas.
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yeah im not nbashing you im just trying to get you to realize that what you did wasnt very polite
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you shouldn't do it with someone you don't know. You do it with your girlfriend or someone you really like and you know they like you back. It's awkward when you do it with a stranger or a "friend".

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That's what mistletoe is for , she shouldn't have been standing there .

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Exactly.
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kazarina
Wong place wrong time wrong person. Sorry to politely disagree from the females perspective.
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It might be if she had a boyfriend already

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Actually, she recently broke up with her boyfriend... but that was a week ago.
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Do you think she might have felt embarass because a friend just comes up and kisses her?
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Wasn't weird for me... you think I should call her.
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Yeah just tell you're sorry for making her feel embarass(if she did) and tell her to watch were you're standing because a mistletoe is meant for "love"
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