Does he actually like me as a person or just using me?
This guy used to hang out with us a lot but lately has not been so much. Partially, because other members of our group don't like him for understandable reasons that I am not getting into right now. I had noticed lately that he had not been speaking to me as much...except when he needed me to do him a favor. I helped him out for awhile but one day he did something to upset me and after not speaking to him for a few days he asked me what was wrong and I told him that I felt as though we were not friends and he was only using me. Well, of course, he claimed wasn't so and he wanted to make it up to me, blah blah blah. Well I decided to give him another chance and since he has made a point of referring to me as a "friend" and has tried to make some effort to do more things for me...however, he still asks for favors. He also has made no effort to be a friend otherwise. I.e. hang out and what not. I feel if he has no problem asking for favors then he should want to act like a friend in other respects if he meant it. Do you think this person actually likes me or just a user?