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PoisonIvyLeo

Is it just me or kids dating and doing things at younger and younger ages? Every thing is a worry and drama.

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Yup......they seem to be in such a hurry to "grow-up", little do they know....IT SUX!!
But, it's not really the kid's faults....just look at the world they have to see everyday....they are only imitating what they think life is all about.....so sad.....I didn't have an actual GF til I was 17.......

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Of course, it's a sign of the end of this system of things, they will get a lot worse too. and parents aren't doing their job to prevent these actions either!
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The parents WOULD do something, but every waking moment they have is filled with stress from trying to make friggin ends meet.....since when did both parents HAVE to work in order to pay the bills and keep food on the table?? There was a time when Mom stayed home and there was some sort of daily structure....now it's all just one HUGE BALL of stressful hustle and bustle.....and for what...so we can turn on the news and see that 26 people got gunned down at a friggin elementary school????????
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that is true
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Amen NAFTA.
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As you MIGHT have picked up on....I'm just a little fed-up with the way the world works recently.....8)
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I salute u fellow nerd :}
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HA!!! YAY!!! 8)
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Yup!

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at my middle school im in 8th grade and their has been 2 inncedents of people having sex...damn

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yes i know how you feel there now teaching kids how to take a test that they wont need for the rest of there lifes the what schools should teach is how to do things they really need for the est of there lifes

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icic6772

I've never had a girlfriend. Or kissed a girl. Or even held hands. And I'm 18

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Good for you! This is just going to get harder to do... :(
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i'm with him
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Well im 14 and ive kissed b4
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Agh!!!! Why can't it happen for me!!! It's not like in trying to have sex or anything. I can wait for that. I just want my first kiss.
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icic: I promise, later, when you find the right girl, you'll be SO happy you got to share everything with her. Right now, just work on being happy with/by yourself. You can't keep a gf/wife happy if you are barely keeping you own head above water.
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But I've kinda lost the feeling of love for another person like that. It's like I can't feel love anymore.
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You can. Work on yourself first. Please, it'll only make you happier.
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Wow i was 10 when i had my first boyfriend.:-( :-)
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Whatever. Kids were all getting "married" when they were ten.
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what do u mean
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Cuz you know how kids are when they're little.
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I salute u fellow nerd
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Me? How am I a nerd?
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Ahhhhhh shmut uhhh elder one plaese educate me on how to keep the female species at a safe and not awkward distance (I'm not sexist)
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What do you mean?
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I know a kid that is 10 and 6 years old that is dating that used to be me.

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Did you even know what dating was when you were that little?
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Well I was 10. Its was weird but i had to get used to him playin football.:-)
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Well to tell thr truth i loved it we were like teens.
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100% correct.

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Yes it seems that kids are doing things at younger an younger ages I am living proof you could say I don't know if this is what you are talking about but I am 13 and I made out with a girl for a whole hour, then I asked my mom when she had her first kiss and she said 16? I was amazed.

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It's a lot more special when you wait.
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Lol same im 14 and i made out
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People like u make me sick (no offense ) but id much rather be a nerd I have way more fun (I kissed a girl but I was LARPing so it doesn't count)
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Yup, I mean like I'm not one of those people. Never had a relationship before.

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Yes they are. its sad.

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In 13 and people like that make me sick (well I did once but I was LARPing so it didn't count
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Yes. kids are dating at 11-12 years old nowadays and thinking that it's perfectly fine. They are extremely stubborn about it too. You try to tell them that dating at such a young age is NOT a good idea, but they just won't listen until they get dumped 2 weeks later. It also seems that this generation acts as though they are very uneducated. I'm not sure how they will survive the years to come...

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You're Right!

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I'm 13 and I think it's just sick and not right
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Sadly, so true...

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Def, im proof and not proud.

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your right , a lot of drama .

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I'm 13 and refused a kiss cuz ... I'm 13 but she didn't understand
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ohhhh , lol
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How is that funny I'm not sexist r anything I just think I'm 2 young the I dislike this elder one :( (srry)
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idk it just is .
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...that kids r stupid
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You know, I'm awaiting the day that I'm joined with the man of my dreams--and my first kiss! :)

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Good! It's SO worth it! I promise you that!
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I have 2 disagree I'm 13 and I one refused a kiss ITS JUST WRONG (unless ur LARPing)
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What are you saying? That I shouldn't save my first kiss for my wedding day?
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DONT GET MARRIED THAT IS PUNISHMENT 4 SHOPLIFTING IN SUM PLACES (elder one how can u say this)
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Well, if God wishes that I get married--then let it be so!
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And what is it with all this shoplifting punishment?
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I don't think so, i think people are noticing it more, personally I like being single and i don't plan on changing that any time soon, and I'm 13 but everybody thinks differently :)

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I'm 13 and think it's just sick and wrong
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I think there should be some sort of law about this
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younger people date 18 year olds and that's Illegal but it doesn't stop them so i doubt it would stop 13 year olds from dating because they are in what they say is love
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yes and if you havent had a relationship or kissed someone then people think your a loser but theres nothing wrong with it

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Right there with u im 13 and refused a kiss and I think there should be a law about this
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The drama is amazing! Trying to grow up way too fast..

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Yep one student in my grade has 3 hickies next thing you know tons if pregnant teens

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With all the sex and violence so readily available everywhere they are doomed to make bad choices with their level of comprehension

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Yes, little kids think it makes them look cool or something like that, they try to rush to get older... I personally don't get life or know what it's all coming to...

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Cuz kids r getting stupider by the day k I'm 13 and I think I'm the only sain kid left in the world I don't want a GF or a cell phone or Facebook Or go 2 big parties all i need is a good set of dice,a computer and a latex LARP sword .if u wanna no how else I'm sain just read my prof

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Ikr. I'm 13 about to turn 14. Everyone my age or younger are already starting to date, and I say to myself," Am I going to be alone?" I barely have any friends so it's tough. Plus so many people bully me at school every single day for the past 3 years. It has been affecting my life ever since. I also have so many sucidal thoughts and everything so yea. I don't even think people like that should be dating. :3

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Kids shouldn't be dating, period. Right now you are going through some serious changes in your body AND mind. Don't feel bad, though. I was sad like that too. Talk to your parents or an older person you feel comfortable with because it will help. :)
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Elder one I respect you even more than the other elders (im NOT. Saying ur old u look about... 20)
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