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Okay, please note that I am not a Yandere/Crazy stalker. I was waiting outside my usual spot today for class, and a "friend" (they seem to despise my presence) walked by and assumed I was stalking them.(because, as a joke, I have followed them around before, and they seem to think I am Yandere since I like Yandere anime) Really, I was waiting for the French teacher, outside of my usual route so that I could avoid said "friend." Sill, after they saw me, I panicked and left for my first period, but they intercepted me and proceeded to accuse me. I seem to be unable to do anything that won't annoy them. I have asked another friend to try and explain it to them, but I'm sure they'll just get angrier at me, like normal.

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Kid, you worry too much... If they don't wanna believe you, F*CK THEM IN THE FACE WITH CACTUS AND LEMON JUICE. If I need to go down there and take care of it all I need is a GPS and I'll beat the crap outta someone with my cripple guitar T_T

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O.O Persimmon, why is your guitar cripple???
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Because I had to kill a dog the size of a miniature pony with it... o_o
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That doesn't make it sound any better... *~*
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It ws attacking a fuor year old. I couldn't pull the stopsign outta the ground so all I had was my guitar... You don't really think I'd ruin my guitar just for the heck of killing a dog, do you??
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Well sometimes I wonder about you... e.e Sorry for the side convo, Ludovic o.o
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And Persi, you need to learn how to spell... lookit your last comment. You're so illiterate xD
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Oh hush your face Abby TxT
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Well, my thanks for the advice, and my condolences about your guitar...
I do appreciate your offer, but I'll have to decline, since I'd hate to inconvenience you and break your guitar further.
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Also, Abby, it's fine.
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There's no saving my guitar, bro. It's way beyond repair. So I just figured I'd put the rest of it to good use and maybe give someone concussion with my wammy bar T.T
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O_O"" violent self...
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Well, I am grateful for the thought, but as emotionally attached as I am to the victim in question, I'd prefer for him not to receive an injury. Still, please do not mistake my... uh...defiance(?) for ungratefulness I am by no means discontent with your reply.
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Also, please forgive my late replies.
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Haha, no problem. But if you ever need my help you just let me know. I'm not beyond driving an hour or two to help someone. Any friend of Abby's is a friend of mine.
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Thank you. You seem very agreeable yourself. And I'd rather not ask you to come here, if that is fine, I am quite capable of getting revenge if the time comes when it is needed. But I really appreciate the thought!
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This is touching and all, but rather....uncomfortable for me to read. It's as if you have to talk about our problems with...everyone.

I don't really enjoy seeing Persimmon indirectly state that he will come and hurt me, either, and I don't like seeing you say you are "capable of getting revenge" indirectly towards me.
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Holy spit. Ludovic's talkin about YOU? Daanng. Wow.
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Yep, and I'd advise that you don't take this seriously. You're not relevant to the situation at hand. Big mistake of him to come up here and ask strangers for advice on a problem we had, too. I'm not very happy reading these comments. So far, he's made himself look like he has been wronged. I'm sorry, but the whole "I was waiting for my teacher" story doesn't add up. First of all, I asked that teacher, on Wednesday, before school ended for the winter break, if he ever came over to ask her a question. The answer was no. Second, his response to me seeing him was that of a stalkers. "Ran away". I'm pretty sure if your friend just happens to spot you waiting by a door, you wouldn't run away unless you did something stupid/horrible/unacceptable. If his story about asking the teacher was true, he would have disregarded me spotting him, and asked her whatever he meant to ask her.

He's really good at making things up. When I confronted him about he, he told me that he was "following me to make sure he stayed out of my way". That ABSOLUTELY makes sense, right? lol, No. So I'm wondering why he changed the story from that, to waiting for a teacher.
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I'd actually like an apology for indirectly stating that you would hurt me. :l That was unneccesary.
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When I confronted him about it*
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stalker's*
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I think maybe you need to acknowledge the fact that he has every right to do whatever the heck he wants to up here. You don't have the right, however, to ridicule or judge whether or not his questions should or shouldn't be up here. I honestly think you BOTH need to work out your frikkin quirks, because honestly, the drama queen crap is starting to get on my nerves too. I sick and frikkin tired of Ludovic coming to me wanting advice on what he should do, because YOU HURT HIS GOD FORSAKEN FEELINGS OVER SOME STUPID CRAP, and he ultimately feels guilty for it. I'm sick and FRIKKIN tired of him moping and feeling terrible, and me not being able to do JACK SQUAT to make him feel better. I can't fix his problem; only he can do that. But you BOTH need to either swallow your frikin pride or leave each other the flying f*** alone.

Thank you.
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I also know Ludovic isn't the victim, but you, Alric, are certainly no victim yourself. Neither or you are in the right in this situation. You are judgemental as all get out, and he is super frackin' sensitive. Just saying.
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Normally, I wouldn't go off. But I am just FINISHED with all this crap. Honestly. You are BOTH acting like CHILDREN. I have nothing against you, and I have nothing against Ludovic. I love you both to death. Really, I do. And I'm sorry if my comments come across as rude or harsh, but I'm only human and I have a breaking point. You may say, "Well, Abby, you aren't really a part of the situation," but you know what? I was SUCKED into the situation, so therefore I AM a part of the situation. But I have been trying my hardest to be a mediator and patch things up between you two, but you both seem to reject any help I give you by unintentionally starting more crap between yourselves. You say you aren't his friend anymore, right? WELL MAYBE THIS TIME YOU SHOULD KEEP IT THAT WAY. Again, I apologize for my rudeness. But you both deserve a good yelling-at.
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Thank you, Abby. I really appreciate your input. I'd like to apologize for bringing you into my issues, especially when they are self-inflicted. I know it is a bit too much to ask for forgiveness. I am just so sorry for being such a bad friend here. I'd also like to tell you how much I regret making such a big deal out of all of this and being a total drama queen. I'll try to be better next time. Thanks so much for the great advice and sticking with me despite all of this. I really couldn't ask for more from you. I hope you and Alric both will be in a good mood for class today, though that might be too much of me to ask. I'm really looking forward to working with you guys after I finish up in French class, please have a great day.
:D
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Also, Persimmon, I hope you aren't too angry with me using your comment like this. I didn't intend for things to go this way. My apologies.
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To Ludovic~ Nah, it's all good. I shouldn't be so violent... especially when I don't know the entire problem. I have this bad habit of getting in the middle of people's issues but I mean well.
To Alric~ Yes, it was wrong of me to threaten you. Especially when I didn't know who I was threatening. My apologies.
To Abby~ Daaaanng, chick, cool your jets. Don't start breathing fire or anything...
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Oh please; I'm not that bad when I'm angry.
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Thank you, Persimmon. And I'd take that as a sign of consideration. Though, I'm pretty nosy so... yeah. I might not be the best moral guide on interfering.
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Yeah, you are. You remember when Zebediah ticked you off last week? You were pretty frightening.
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And it's all good, Ludovic. So long as Alric doesn't hate me and I didn't piss off anyone too badly... I'm really good at making people hate me xD
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While I'm here, anyone got any ips on how to swallow my pride?
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tips*
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Make sure you have plenty of water to wash it down with. Sorry, that's not a serious answer. I'm a jerk sometimes. Can't help it. It's my religion. ANYWAY, I am good at swallowing my pride because I have to do it quite often. More or less, admit your mistakes and be sure to let it be known that you acknowledge the fact that you've done something wrong. Let people know you'll try to change a little so you won't make the mistake again.
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Okay, I'll tweak my method to match yours.
Won't be hard, seeing as yours doesn't involving baking a cake or martyring yourself to prove that you are really sorry.
:D
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Welll... I can't cook that great, so that's probably why... xD I'd probably set something on fire. Whether it's unintentional or intentional.
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Sounds like fun.
The only things I ever ruined while cooking was...
Well, I tried to make daigaku imo... but I burned the frying oil because I put sugar on the yams before cooking. (wtf, am I right?)
Next, was my failed attempt at making curry-flavored bread...
Olive oil and curry powder don't mix well... and
I used far too much cumin.
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Persimmon, Abby, Alric, anyone, please just look at this.

I can't take it anymore, the guilt has been burning a hole in me.
I lied. I lied I lied I lied. This question is only a half-truth.
No, I wasn't following Alric for the sheer heck of it.
But yes, I was trying, halfway, to use Yuno Gasai's techniques to do what I wanted to.
No, I wasn't trying to talk to the teacher, Alric is telling the truth here.
But I was trying to avoid him. Our first period is on the same hall, so to avoid him, I waited behind that door for him to pass so I could go to class quickly after he entered his class.
I don't expect you to believe me, and I really don't deserve it.
I fabricated the teacher think to make it more believable. But I seriously wasn't trying to creep out Alric... I earnestly only wanted to stay away, and I was devastated because of all of this.
Please, I beg of you, just don't hate me, or dislike or look down at me, please.
I know I don't deserve it, but I cannot live with this guilt anymore.
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Please, I just want this to all blow over already.
Abby, I'll try and keep my stitching together better, and stay away from Alric in a way that doesn't involve followign his every move.

Alric, I'll let you live apart from me and dislike me all you want. But I don't think I'll ever despise you. I hope you can forgive at least that.

Persimmon, please forgive me for making Abby so distraught, and for dragging you and the rest of Ask.com's citizens into this. Please, I hope this first impression doesn't displace me badly in your mind. You seem to be a great and interesting person who I don't want to be considered a bad person by.
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following*
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Well, I feel relieved. I just hope my worry about how everyone will react doesn't gnaw me to death.
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Who cares what they think? This person is assuming things without getting all of the facts. They probably only care about causing drama. They can say what they want about you. If someone says something about the imaginary situation, you can ignore it or deny it. Don't play along with the drama or it will follow you around a lot longer. If you act like it's not a big deal then people will get bored with the rumor fast. Plus, it will make your "friend" look like a drama king or queen.

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Thanks, I'll try to ignore the accusations.
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Just try not to act upset in any way. It could fuel the drama. Its a silly accusation and should be treated as such. Good luck :)
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do not worry,some people are just get freak out easily.

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The right course of action is DEFINITELY not asking strangers for some sort of advice on OUR problems. You made yourself look like the victim too, as usual.

You can quit following me now, by the way. (Site wise AND real life wise) I'm through.

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Thanks for the advice, Alric. I'll try to follow it. I hope you don't get too angry with me if I fail.
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