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Why do guys bring something up & then chicken out on telling me what he's talking about?

ok so me & my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months & tomorrow is my birthday & he told me he had something to tell me but he refused to tell me until he sees me face to face. i don't know what it could be. he does this all the time & he knows it drives me crazy. he'll bring something up & then just change the subject. it's like he has something to say but he's scared to say it. i HATE when guys do that. if they would just tell me it would save me the wondering

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anglewithanshotgun

i do the same thing with my gf but we think its cuter that way so we do it and it means he would rather tell you face to face then over the phone

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yea i know that but why bring it up over the phone & make me wonder what he's talking about for like 3 days
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anglewithanshotgun
cuz maybe he wanted to talk about it then then changed his mind
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ugh :( i'm worried
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anglewithanshotgun
me and my gf do that but we cuddle and have nice sweet romantic conversations
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yea we do that to...except i don't like the fact that he's to scared to tell me whatever he's talking about
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anglewithanshotgun
me and my gf talk about anything and everything no matter what it is and when we hung on saterday she got upset and wouldn't talk to me till i texted her that if she didn't talk or hug me i was going to cry my self so she walked over and hugged me and we talked it out after i told her how much she means to me and how much i need her
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aww how sweet :)
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anglewithanshotgun
yeah when ever me and her cuddle it always ends in a romantic convo
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same here...that's so sweet. ya'll are great together
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anglewithanshotgun
yea me and her are the prefect two when we i was at the church saterday morning to see her and meet her there people were smiling when we goofed off it was so sweet
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lol your a hopeless romantic...ya know that. it's sweet
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anglewithanshotgun
lol me and her are amazing and even better her parents get sicked when we hang cuz our parents get along great
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that's kool. austin met my dad saturday...didn't go so great...my uncle held a knife to his throat. but he was just kidding & austin just laughed & shook his hand
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anglewithanshotgun
thats cool her parents and my parents let us kiss in front of them and her dad said that you went past the 1 kiss limit so i kept kissing her and he said now those kisses you wont get back when you see her next and we just laughed at that and kept kissing
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he's to shy to kiss me in front of my family or his mom...but he will in front of anyone else
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anglewithanshotgun
well they smile when we kiss cuz im tall and she is short so its cute
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lol yea that's cute...u must really like her. you talk about her a lot
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anglewithanshotgun
i am in love with her and i love talking about her she is like the only person i talk to
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aww. i'm not in love i don't think...but then again i don't really know how love feels
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its hard to explain but ive known her for over a year now and she was in love with me the whole year and i kept negelecting her and now i am in love with her
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so far everything you've said about her was sweet. awwww
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cuz there is like nothing bad about me and her we are so happy together
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lol yay 4 you
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We hung out all day yesterday at Olive Garden and then the mall and it was amazing like 6 hours with her was great
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ok the reason for that is because we're afraid of bringing up something that will get you girls really pissed at us.

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he said it wasn't bad but that's all i could get out of him
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he just really is doubting asking you or bringing it up cause he doesn't want to start anything. cut the guy some slack.
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ok...fair enough i guess
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good ^_^ just try to be easy on the guy. he doesn't want to make you mad is all.
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ok. i just don't know what he could be thinking to make me mad. we get along great actually
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well, it may not be something wrong. just something he is too shy to ask you.
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could be..he is pretty shy. i don't know...i'll find out tomorrow when i see him i guess
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ok
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