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What should I do?

so I made a really big mistake, I cheated on my boyfriend with two other guys (not in person) and I never really had a chance to tell him so after a while I figured it might just be bettor by now if I didn't tell him, well then we had intercourse for the first time and I realized that I couldn't lie to him any more so I told him, and I knew deep down that he wouldn't want to work it out and that he would break up with me (because frankly, he should have) so I told him that after I tell him what I did I would have to break up with him, well in the end he technically broke up with me and it hurt so bad!!! I've been in love with this guy for 3 years and I've been in other relationships but I've never really cried after they dumped me, well I haven't stopped crying sense we broke up (last evening) and he says that there is little to no chance that we will ever get back together in the future, so my Q is: what should I do? please please help me!!! p.s: I told him that to show him that I have changed, even if there is no chance of us getting back together, I won't do anything with any guys for at least a year and a half and then if he still says no then I'll try and move on!

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trust is just like a mirror...once you break it...you can still use it...but you can't fixed it anymore...

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Yeah.......:(
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just move on...anyways,it's your fault in the first place....you should think the consequences first....
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Yeah yeah, I know....
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We just got back together!!! He forgives me!!!
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anglewithanshotgun

when you have a guy that loves you that much DON'T CHEAT cheating is stupid why did you even cheat?

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You're not helping any!
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Read the last but of my q again, I edited it!
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Bit*
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anglewithanshotgun
i cheated on one of my exes and i told her right when it happened she forgave me cuz she loved me alot what made you cheat on your bf i cheated cuz i was caught up in the moment and how did you cheat if it wasn't in person? the best thing you could do is move on and find a guy that you wont cheat on
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I would have told him right away, I meant to! But I didn't really have a chance till yesterday! Same reason, the guys made me horny and kept asking to do stuff and I kinda say yes really easy so I finally gave in! Well I sexted one of the guys (without pics) and then the other guy, I sexted (with pics)
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I meant to tell right after it happened but I didn't really get a chance until yesterday! Same thing basically, they made me h*rny and I kinda say yes to easy so I finally just gave in, and I $exted one of the guys (without pics) and the other guy, I $exted (with pics)
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anglewithanshotgun
you should of just been sexting your bf and to be honest i dont think you deserve a boy after that
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I know, I know, I suck! I'm a bit*ch and a $lut and I shouldn't ever be I'm a meaningful relationship I know! I've been telling myself all of this sense last night!!!
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anglewithanshotgun
listen email me and when i get home ill give you advice on getting him back
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Ok! Thanks for you're help!
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anglewithanshotgun
okay email me check my proflie to get it and after school ill give you advice on how to get him back
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What's you're email? On you're profile I can't read the whole thing!
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anglewithanshotgun
you found it lol clearly cuz you emailed me
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Haha yeah, I kinda guessed what it was from the half that I say and it turned out to be right lol!
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Saw*
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