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Do you like when guys stare at your butt? (For girls)

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no, i find it very distasteful, and rude

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Of course not. That's rude and disrespectful.

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I'd probably tell the guy to get out his phone, and tell him to take it picture. Of course, girls don't like it when guys stare at their butts. We aren't a piece of meat you know.

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um. NO!

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I don't care, as long as he doesn't say anything rude or touch me.

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I'd rather have guy stare at my face.but lookin at butt or any other body parts I find it very rude

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NOPE! totally rude, but if he's just messing around and trying to be funny for his friends then it's fine, in fact I might even call him out on it and embarrass him :P

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No

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no way!

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MidnightWolf

No, I find it rude

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no. i hate when they go and look down like this one guy full on made it noticeable! boobs isn't so bad, but that itself is still annoying. personality is they key

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I get self-conscious.

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Me too and that makes me like automatically walk funny because I feel so self conscious lol I hate it
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Nooo! That's just rude and weird...

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No.. It's disrespectful. Us girls don't like pigs. I'm not saying that you are one either!

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No!! Gross. Creep. Looks shouldn't matter. That's just telling the girl you wont s** which is wrong until your married

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no , if they do they are asking for a slap across the face

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ok i have no clue what ever the saying but girls like to know if they still got it ( and yes it would be weird if the dude went up and touch her butt )

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Hell no. never even when we have been dating for 7 months.

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ahhh..NO!!

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no. if anybody looks at your butt you need to help him with his problems.

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i dont know.... it depends on the situation. sometimes it sort of turns me on....

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Depends if I like him or not lol

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sagittarius1997

Depends. If we're in a committed relationship and things are a little playful I don't care. If it's a stranger I mind because it's like I'm not taken seriously and he doesn't know if my personality is attractive whereas the person I was in a relationship did

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heck no!

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Of course i like it :P well, if its someone cute

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u go gurl
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ummm.....never really experianced thatO_o

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0.0 NO! It is creepy and nasty!

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how so? maybe creepy but i dont understand nasty
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if its a stranger no but if im trying to impress them ya

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No way! Its rude and disrespectful. So, heck no, its gross. If he wants to look at someones butt look at his own. >:(

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heck to the no, it's rude.

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-Well.....whenever i`m out with my girlfriend and I see a guy checking her out...I get my voice as high as I can and turn and say "OMG ASHLEY?! THAT PERV OVER THERE IS TOOOOTALLY CHECKING ME OUT." then I switch as hard as possible while walking away. :)

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my name is ashley yay
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-YAY!? That was totally a random name..my girlfriend didn't want me to say her actual name lmao
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so your les.. or bi, w.e
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maybe

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i dont care. haha

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Kik me then hahaha
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haha
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idk whats your name?
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Austidwell (;
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im a dude and i think sometimes can be a good thing

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if ur my friend :no
a well known player: meh i dont care
person i've never met: no
cute guy: meh
but u have to understand it makes u look like a complete ass it doesn't matter i care or not

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i star at girl butt :D lol just keeping it honest

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Tight jeans...short skirts...thongs...of course they like it!

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I never really catch anybody doing it as long as there not being mean or laughing with their friends about it i don't really care although looking for a long time kind of makes me uncomfortable so maybe if they did it for like 10 seconds the most

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i relly dont care as long as their not harrasing me and no looking at a gurl is not harrasment

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i dont care because it makes me feel good to be noticed but i would like it a whole lot better if they just stared at my face

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If its one of those cute guys then ill be like take a pic, it will last longer, but if its like this random guy then i will be like all self concious and stuff

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Happens weather you like it or not

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NO!!!!!!!! It makes me think, "What the hell is on my butt?"

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No it shows what you really want and it's disrespectful.

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i get very self-conscious and start wondering if there is something back there besides what he's looking @

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Well I know that guys stare at my but and I don't like it and it makes me feel uncomfortable so I say No and it is even more rude when they stare at your boobs I'd rather have them stare At my face

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yep :)

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F*** yea i like it it makes me feel like im loved there is this guy at school and likes me and touches my butt and says how beautiful it is i love it .SO all you wierdows that say no must have never had the experience .so you should shut the hell up and get a life. ?

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You're...special, aren't you?
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no she isnt... nuthin wrong with liking the physic of a females body. i like it, mostly cuz the girls at my school have big asses so if he looks in my direction it makes me feel like i stand out.
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yea it makes me feel that i have something to offer somebody. I don't think it's disrespectful because they just find you to be appealing. If you really are uncomfortable ask them to stop and if they dont, turn around and backhand him

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Just sayin to all of you who said no....about 95% of guys are gonna check out a girls butt if they like what they see....The kindest most polite and respectful guy will do it just when hes sure she wont see him. And from my perspective (I know im not a girl and will never know what it feels like to be a girl so on so on) but when a girl checks me out its the biggest confidence booster..Ive heard some feminists chicks getting all bent out of shape over guys cat calling and I dont get it because if a girl was ever like hey your sexy or what up good lookin or some shit from across the street I could go from being in the worst mood all the way to like the happiest I could be.. like its a compliment as long as the persons not overdoing it and harassing the person I really dont get how girls get so put off

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