Most Moms want everything to be perfect for her family and friends. A tight budget may also be a factor. We have to learn that perfect is not real, it's only in magazines! Offer to help her out and give her a hug!
Because we have a lot of presents,family gathering,present wrapping,house cleaning & general chaos surrounding us. I'm that way because I want my kids to enjoy themselves & they can look back & enjoy the memories.