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How can I become a nicer person? (Read details)

I feel like I act like (for lack of a better word) b*tch sometimes and aren't always the best I could be. when I make jokes to make others laugh they can come across as mean or( not all the time though) and I want to become more respectful and nice, without loosening my sense of humor. what steps can I do to accomplish this and stick with it?

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Bite your tongue. You can be funny without being mean, and it comes across as disrespectful if you not only make jokes towards people but if you say them at wrong times.

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treat others as you would want them to treat you?

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Exactly!!!
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Become nicer..
I think you are already changing to nicer.
First thing is to recognise you are too extreme,
you are already recognising.
Second I would look for several people with delightful character.
Ask what they would do at this time,
and do it.

easy peasy

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Just think how you would want yourself to treat you if you were the other person. Confusing, I know, but I know exactly how you feel. I can say something and it turns out to be rude without it even meaning to be.

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Just be funny and when somebody does not have a friend be their friend and just be your self

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I think it's really a big step that you even ask that question. I think a lot of things in my own head, but it's not necessary to always express them because people are sensitive in different ways. I stay away from people who are mean or spend the least amount of time with them when I have too. You make choices every day about how you want to be, so own it. Treat people the way you want to be treated.

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