Ex husband was abusive, current husband also abusive... Had recent conversation with ex, he says no issues like ours. Should I believe him?
not to place blame on anyone, but when he (ex) tells me this I question my sanity a bit. please help. I recognize in myself a tendency to press a resolution to a point of angering someone, but in all honesty I wonder if it's really is my fault, especially now that my ex is saying he has no problems like ours with his current GF of 2yrs. Should I feel responsible for these violent episodes? if I would have done something different... pls be understanding. I have lots of questions about my character. I am a kind person and very sensitive if a person shuts me off I typically complain they don't care. I know I have faults and I'm not above admitting them. also known have a stubborn streak which might be harder to admit. also I realize it may be hard to give a define answer on this one without really knowing me but I'm in a bit of a crisis now, hence all the questions. thank you to all who put thoughtful consideration to this question. :)