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I really wanna try and move on after this break up. so there is this girl ive known for awhile [read more]

...and we are really close friends. of course i dont see her much i was wondering should i just make a move, i dont really know what to do im still a bit cautious after my recent breakup, with this girl i had been goiung out with for 5 months. plus im really stressed and i know if i do this ill probably be a lot less stressed. should i kiss her because we really have become good friends but i dont want her to just be offended to

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Go for it even if it might mean rejection. I used to be afraid too but I've had to push myself. It's totally worth it because you'll get closure and stop having to ask "what if?". You gotta take risks to get results.

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I would say yes. You need someone to help fill that gap that you have. Becoming evolved with other people is a good way to do that.

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The LAST thing you need to do is jump into another relationship without dating around first. That's why your last one ended, you gotta date around first with multiple girls and then weeed 'em out until there's only one left. Play the field, enjoy your freedom. There are 3.5 BILLION females on the planet, don't be in such a hurry to get a life-sentence of house-arrest.

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wow hope you dont tell your girl that. but i was generally happy with the last girl i went out with i loved her so much plus how many black girls like white guys huh. not many at least in my experience.
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I told every girl I dated the truth - "I'm not trying to get you into bed, and I'm not trying to get married, I just wanna go out on a date" and ya know what? It makes them want you even more. My wife and I both dated around and we both decided on each other.

As for black girls liking white guys, that's irrelevant to the question, but yeah actually a lot of them do like white men, so don't let that deter you, matter of fact approaching a black girl will show that you have confidence and chicks dig that, so go for it. When the other women see you with a black woman they'll wonder what you have that she wants and then they'll want it too.
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wow thanks thats actually really helpful :)
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You're welcome, good luck!
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just wait for awhile. do u really wont to dat but I could understand dat stressed but if it give u less.stressed and it help your stressed to be out then go a head

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??????im sorry the way you typed that i didnt understand a tiny bit of it
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its okay my keyboard. is not working dat well
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Give yourself some time; live with yourself, as they say. Never date a girl just because you want to date a girl. Date her because you want to date THAT girl, specifically.

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you just got out of a relationship give your heart time to heal

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