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How do you know if a guy really loves you?

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If you have to ask this question, he doesn't. I can't explain any better than that.

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Exactly
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No... People can love other people without the other one knowing.
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Good answer! Really makes you think.
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MsStina, I see where you are coming from, but that isn't quite right. If you truly love someone you have gotten to know them and understand them. You have had conversation about your feelings as well as theirs. When someone "loves" someone with out the other knowing, it is more they love the idea of that person. Does that make sense?
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when they tell u

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That's a lie. They can be a lying b@stard.
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@custsandscars true
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if he says"I LOVE YOU"!:)

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People lie..
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and there is people who dont...
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Yea, but someone telling you they do doesn't mean they do. Because you never know when people are lying or not.
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omg..clearly you've never been in love! and thats sad! im sorry you have depression issue...
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*issues
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Actually, I am in love. You're 13. You've never been in love. And I don't have depression.
People lie. It happens all the time. Life isn't a fairy tale sweetheart.
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Anyone can be in love! @cutsandscars
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Is he nice and takes good care of you?

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when they hang around you alot and flirt :)

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He tells you.

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If he says so, and you trust him, then you'd have no reason not to believe him. I'm sure you'd just be able to tell also.

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There are many different hints on if guy likes you or not. Some guys can make fun of you, that's just how some boys show that they like you. Others will help you around at school, etc. They will also flirt with you and always be by your side.

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There's no way to tell, simple as that. (Unless you monitor heart rate, blood pressure, and stress levels, but that would be super creepy)

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one of my friends swears this is the way... if you're sharing a plate of food and he gives you the last bite.
I knew when I got fired (the one and only time) from a job, I came home crying, he says "whose ass do I need to kick? " when I told him I was fired "is that all? now we can go on vacation"

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1. He wants to spend more time with you than he does his friends

2. He loves to make you laugh.... Telling jokes, tickling you, smiling into your eyes, etc...

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By his actions, his concern and treatment of you. "I love you" doesn't mean anything if that person treats you poorly. If this is a new relationship, then he will be completely focused on you, your wants and your needs. He will want to spend all of his free time with you and he won't be able to keep his hands off you (I don't mean in a sexual manner).

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When u are his only girl y'all spend all time together and y'all are both happy

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Body language

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