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My old friend dyes her hair and is getting piercing's, everyone think she is moving to fast. What should we do?

My old friends is changing herself to fast. We all think she is going to leave this school with a tattoo, pregnant, or as a pot head. What should my friends and I do?

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I disagree with most of the above answers. Sounds to me like she has some good friends who actually care about her. If she is a good friend of yours, then you should be totally comfortable in sitting her down and expressing your concern, as well as your reasons for the way you feel. Many young girls go through this, only to regret it later on in life. Some body modifications cannot be fixed, and as you get older, many find themselves filled with regret. Depending on where the tatts are, and piercings are, it could (although it should not matter) affect her future employment, Many employers will not hire a person, especially if it is a corporate job, or one dealing with the public in a business sense. I would not PUSH your beliefs on her, only express your concerns.

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Laugh at her. Let her do what she wants. Its a free country, maybe it's not up to you.

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Let her do what she wants it's her decision not yours so just let her be. It will be her fault in the future

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dont do anything. she is finding a way of expressing herself.

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as a pot head?
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I have sued hair and piercings and never touched pot. that is the most reducilous steriotype I've ever heard. how do you express yourself?
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I'm not trying to judge people.
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so why do you assume she will turn bad? not Every wants to follow the flock. let her so what she wants and if she does start to turn bad THEN do something about it. it could just be a phase.
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