When you love someone, it's because you know so much about them. Because they've opened up. And when you love someone, more then half the time, you two know each others weak points. So in arguments, both of you know a way to tear each other up. But ti doesn't have to be that way.
some guys dont, but many guys do, because they havent been taught the value of love, and they havent been taught to be gentlemen, so they believe women to simply be toys, instead of people who are to be protected and cared for, its a sad reality of today's world.