Who can help? (guys only)
my ex and i had to break up because hes moveing to california in a few months. the last time he moved away from a girlfriend he stayed with her until he moved witch he said was a big mistake. so with me hes trying to just be friends so that the move wont be so hard. we were best friends before we dated so we both thought we would be fine. but its been 4 months of torture and crying almost every day because hes my first love and just being friends kills me. he said if i dont stop crying and being sad all the time then we cant be friends because im bringing him down. how do i stop loveing him? how do i hold back the tears and pain for the sake of our friendship?