The most valuable lesson I have learned and continue to learn is be a good communicator, it is the oil that facilitates life. Be kind, we have no idea what the other person has just endured, tomorrow we may need another's tolerance and kindness. Laugh and help others to do so, someone may desperately need a smile, so give one to them.
while growing up. you see people that are materialistic. you hear people say don't be materialistic. it don't buy love or happiness. well I think today? after working hard for what I have today to show for it. well after two good long relationships with two girls. my last one was 5.5 yrs and the other was for 9.5 yrs. u know what I've got to show for it? a big learning lesson and to constantly tell youngsters. to stay in school. don't not do your home work or not pay attention in class. if you want to smoke weed and kick it with your friends after school? first do your home work. then have at it. your HWRK is all so very important and so also are you. Ur what comes first before others. take care of only yourself. go ahead be very independent, be materialistic, get everything that u want to own in your life quick. cuz its people who will drag you down. women and men who are out there who take things for granted. take not only your deepest inter feelings. they mind, your thoughts have u feel that its Ur fault when its not. what I've learnd from this life,my life today is? to don't take crap from anyone. don't change Ur self for anyone. trust only in yourself, cuz Ur all that you've got. in a pinch or in a fight. its always u having to climb up the whole or fight five on one. so to your answer you've asked me? my answer is...
THAT THIS LIFE I'M LIVING CONSTANTLY NO MATTER WHAT IT IS? PLAIN AND SIMPLE. LIFE JUST ISN'T FARE. REALLY...
You either cried because you were in pain and didn't have the self control to withstand it or you were feeling sorry for yourself and your situation. This has helped me deal with situations better rather than break down crying and thinking it is all my fault when it is really the other person's fault.
The older I get the less certain I am about things. Happiness is achieved through virtuous action - helping people - not through materialistic acquisition or other superficialities like how you look. Yield to others - you don't have to be right all the time. Gratitude - be grateful for what you have. Look for the good in others instead of criticising.
Growing up is negative stuff, taking responsibilities for your self and others again negative stuff, having to work and paying a house off negative stuff, learn from life its simple, you will die and in the end it don't matter, just live life the best you can.
Do not walk through life complacent. When you think nothing will change, life jumps out with a humongous surprise! Instead, live your life with the expectation that change is just around the corner. Enjoy the moment, embrace the joy and laughter, shoulder the hardships, endure the sadness. Do not, DO NOT, lock away your emotions because you fear the changes that will come!
We are all in it together; always take time to acknowledge the needs of others, a smile or kind word goes a long way , learn to laugh at yourself, do not expect to know everything, be a good listener , above all ; appreciate and enjoy what you have, there is always someone out there that would be happy to trade places!
Things won't go your way most of the time, but they always go the way they are supposed to. You will make mistakes, and you will learn lessons from them. People will hurt you, and you will become stronger. You'll fall in love, and you'll learn to trust. You'll lose your loved ones in life, and you'll realize that they're still here. People say life is a roller coaster you can't get off, so I suggest to just buckle up and enjoy the ride.
Life is not fair and you must learn to deal with all kinds of BS and sooner or later you DIE, enjoy it while you can...learn to be at peace with yourself.... for you will need YOU, as long as you live.
You can make anyone's day better with nothing but a smile and kind word! ^_^ that its better to see everyone as your friend until they prove that they can't be, and that nothing is impossible through Christ! :)