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my ex and I have shared custody, 4 days here then 3 days there. every year at Christmas my kids take the majority of their stuff over to moms them its never seen from again. toys, clothes etc. I can see something's like laptops, phones but even dolls and toys and stuff them the kids tell me that their mom cleans out the toy boxes when the kids are with me and wen they go home half their stuff is gone. I hate spending on this stuff if she's only gonna trashier or something. I hate telling them no you can't take it but I know the outcome.